TTC After a Loss

Intro - siggy pic warning/mc mentioned

Hi all,

First off, I'm so sorry everyone is here, but am glad there is a board where we can all connect, support and help each other out.  Wanted to post and formally say "hi".  I had a miscarriage on 3/19 at 8 weeks 6 days and have been posting over at the mc/loss board.  We've been given the approval to start TTC again after my next period, so I think it's time I move over here.  I've a frequent poster on the parenting after 35 board and the swap spot, so some of you may have seen me around.

 A little bit of background about me - I'm 39 and have two kids (18 year old boy and 15 month old girl).  My SO is 43 and this was our first miscarriage.  We had gone in for an ultrasound as my uterus was measuring a week or two larger and discovered that the baby had no hearbeat.  We did the misoprostol (sp?) miscarriage and am now just waiting for AF to come.  We feel like we need to start again ASAP due to our ages.  It took us 9 months to conceive our little girl and 6 months to conceive the last baby, so time is of the essence.  So far, we haven't done any IVF, but I've been trying to temp and chart in order to cut down the process.  It is tougher than it looks.  My pregancy with our daughter was rough, so I will admit I'm really nervous about what to expect.

I know my age has a lot do to with our troubles, so I may belong over on the TTC after 35 board.  But I've really enjoyed the feel and support that I've noticed on this board.  If I don't belong here, please let me know (no hard feelings will be had).

Thank you to whomever created the info board for newbies and lurkers.  I'm still exploring it but wanted to make sure I read correctly that I do not need to post (siggy warning) each time.  I don't want to hurt anyone, so please let me know.  And if I missed saying something, please let me know.

I look forward to connecting with you all and hope everyone's stay here is short.

Re: Intro - siggy pic warning/mc mentioned

  • Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss. The women of this board are extremely supportive--I hope you find the kindred spirits you're looking for here!

    Your daughter is ADORABLE!

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  • I am sorry for your loss. welcome to the board....and if you have a loss this IS the board for you....I am 39 also :)
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  • and no you do not need to put a siggy warning every time you post:)
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  • I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope you find lots of comfort and support here!

    Your DD is precious!


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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. I've found this board to be a great source of support and encouragement. Welcome.
  • Im very sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I hope your stay is short and sweet! Your Daughter is so cute!

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome and it's not necessary for you to place a siggy warning every time you post. I think some ladies only do that if they have a pg ticker. I hope your stay here is short and sweet :)

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  • I'm sorry for your loss and welcome to the board!  In your case you belong here and TTC after 35 but we are way cooler over here Stick out tongue.
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  • Hello. I am so sorry about the MC. Hugs.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board!  You were right about the feel of the board - it's awesome.  Also, I'm 38 and I feel right at home here.  Big Smile  Finally, I don't think you need to put a warning in your siggy - your daughter is so cute!!

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  • Welcome to the board. I am sorry for your loss and look forward to getting to know you.

    (I usually post warnings if I make a new thread that discusses my children or sometimes I will post a warning if I respond to a newbies intro so they can brace themselves since they don't "know me" yet. I rarely make new threads though. I usually only respond to current posts. But I am a frequent poster on this board so it would just be excessive to always post a warning every time I posted.)

     

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    I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board and may your stay here be short and sweet.

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  • I too am so sorry for your loss and hope your stay here is short. You are very welcome to become a part of this board, hope you find it as supportive as I have... Like the others have said your daughter is too cute!!
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