::BostonKisses:: this how you call someone out

JBrianne · April 2011

Not all passive aggressive like on a UO thread that the person you're calling out only saw because someone on their home board posted a link to that twatwaffle MistySierra's twatwaffular pic.

Yeah, I made an asinine comment based on the experience of people I know, not my own personal dealings. Then I got (rather nicely) told. You've never made a largely uninformed opinion of something?

tSquared1987 · April 2011

Let me guess...you are the moron that made the comment about preemies on another board?

You are an idiot. And quite frankly I think you are a big twatwaffle as well.

LittleGus · April 2011

I don't think that she was "calling you out". People mention things posted on other boards all the time.

QueenBee320 · April 2011

JBrianne:
Not all passive aggressive like on a UO thread that the person you're calling out only saw because someone on their home board posted a link to that twatwaffle MistySierra's twatwaffular pic.

Yeah, I made an asinine comment based on the experience of people I know, not my own personal dealings. Then I got (rather nicely) told. You've never made a largely uninformed opinion of something?

Maybe you should just apologize. That would be the grown up thing to do. You obviously know you were wrong otherwise you wouldn't be so defensive.

J+MS · April 2011

You are really redeeming yourself, here. Confused

JBrianne · April 2011

QueenBee320:
JBrianne:
Not all passive aggressive like on a UO thread that the person you're calling out only saw because someone on their home board posted a link to that twatwaffle MistySierra's twatwaffular pic.

Yeah, I made an asinine comment based on the experience of people I know, not my own personal dealings. Then I got (rather nicely) told. You've never made a largely uninformed opinion of something?
Maybe you should just apologize. That would be the grown up thing to do. You obviously know you were wrong otherwise you wouldn't be so defensive.

I admitted I was wrong and that I didn't know they kept using adjusted age until 2 years old. I'm not really defensive about it, I recognized I had a stupid UO, I just think calling out someone hours and hours later on a UO is silly, especially when the person admitted they were wrong already.

Lilystar82 · April 2011

Pretty sure it wasn't a callout - passive aggressive or otherwise. I've never seen BK back down, so if she wanted to call you out - she would've. Or xp'ed it to Preemies so you could continue to be (nicely) told.

Your comment was hurtful whether it was made in ignorance or otherwise. We all make uninformed opinons, we just have the common sense to know when to air them, and when not to. Prematurity is an extremely sensitive subject that you are blessed to have not experienced. I dont believe I ever saw an apology either for your "largely uninformed opinon." (if I missed it, I apologize)

Kate621 · April 2011

I don't think she was trying to call you out at all. It was an UO thread. Just as you had yours yesterday, she had hers. I think I can speak for most preemie moms, micropreemie moms especially, and say that we are FIERCELY protective of our babies. When you see this tiny little person that you have loved and longed for go through so much pain while you have to stand by helpless, there really isn't a worse feeling in the world. No matter what your intentions, yesterday felt like a personal attack on us. As if you were saying that we should just get over it and that our babies are or should be normal by 6 months. You changed your perspective after things were explained to you and I hope that you learned a little bit in the process. I think it can be left at that.

Kristi221 · April 2011

JBrianne:
QueenBee320:
JBrianne:
Not all passive aggressive like on a UO thread that the person you're calling out only saw because someone on their home board posted a link to that twatwaffle MistySierra's twatwaffular pic.

Yeah, I made an asinine comment based on the experience of people I know, not my own personal dealings. Then I got (rather nicely) told. You've never made a largely uninformed opinion of something?
Maybe you should just apologize. That would be the grown up thing to do. You obviously know you were wrong otherwise you wouldn't be so defensive.
I admitted I was wrong and that I didn't know they kept using adjusted age until 2 years old. I'm not really defensive about it, I recognized I had a stupid UO, I just think calling out someone hours and hours later on a UO is silly, especially when the person admitted they were wrong already.

But starting an entirely new post makes complete sense. Just say you're sorry and move on.

JBrianne · April 2011

Kate621:
I don't think she was trying to call you out at all. It was an UO thread. Just as you had yours yesterday, she had hers. I think I can speak for most preemie moms, micropreemie moms especially, and say that we are FIERCELY protective of our babies. When you see this tiny little person that you have loved and longed for go through so much pain while you have to stand by helpless, there really isn't a worse feeling in the world. No matter what your intentions, yesterday felt like a personal attack on us. As if you were saying that we should just get over it and that our babies are or should be normal by 6 months. You changed your perspective after things were explained to you and I hope that you learned a little bit in the process. I think it can be left at that.

I sincerely do apologize, and you are right, perspective changed.

QueenBee320 · April 2011

JBrianne:
Kate621:
I don't think she was trying to call you out at all. It was an UO thread. Just as you had yours yesterday, she had hers. I think I can speak for most preemie moms, micropreemie moms especially, and say that we are FIERCELY protective of our babies. When you see this tiny little person that you have loved and longed for go through so much pain while you have to stand by helpless, there really isn't a worse feeling in the world. No matter what your intentions, yesterday felt like a personal attack on us. As if you were saying that we should just get over it and that our babies are or should be normal by 6 months. You changed your perspective after things were explained to you and I hope that you learned a little bit in the process. I think it can be left at that.

I sincerely do apologize, and you are right, perspective changed.

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