We haven't taken LO out of the house yet except to go to the pediatrician, but I thought it might be nice for us to eat out this weekend. The doctor said it's fine to take her out as long as strange people aren't touching her of course, and there's a restaurant about 5 minutes from our house that's kind of loud, so I don't think she'd really disturb people if she starts crying. WDYT? Have you gone out to eat yet? Any tips?
Re: Have you gone to a restaurant with LO?
We took DD out to eat the day after we got home from the hospital...I didn't want to cook and was sick of fast food from being in the hospital (would you believe nobody helped us cook dinner?), so we took her out. We've been going out at least once a week with her since then. I just keep her in her carseat and stick the whole thing on the inside of the booth to prevent strangers from touching her.
We've taken out the LO to eat a few times already. I usually make sure he's nice and fed before we leave. He usually falls sleep during the drive and then stays asleep at the restaurant. We stick the carseat in the booth though some restaurants have stands made just for carseats which are nice. I made a canopy for the carseat so sometimes we put that over it so it's nice and dark for him.
The one time he did cry, DH took him to change his diaper and walk around outside away from patrons. I did nurse him in a restaurant, but it was in a wrap and I was facing a wall.
Me: 31, DH: 34, Married 5/29/05
BFP #1: 6/22/10, EDD 3/6/11, DS born 2/25/11 @ 38w5d
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This. We've left the house everyday, either for a walk or an errand. I took her out to lunch yesterday and fed her right before we left. The lunch ended up being LONG, so I had to feed her at the restaurant, but she was a champ. She just napped, fed, burped, napped. Like she does at home. No one tried to touch her.
GO!! Good Lord, you need to get out of the house for your own mental health!!
With DD I didn't go anywhere but to my parents houses...
But this time around I am not anywhere near as scared as I was before!! I take DS out quite a bit, but with a 4 year old I pretty much don't have a choice! Between taking Sissy to school, going to the grocery store, and trips to Target for all the little things we need, we are out almost daily! (plus I had to go back to school
so I have to take him to Nana's on those days)
I always try to get him to nurse really well before we leave the house and sometimes I take a bottle of pumped BM with us in a lil cooler for just in case he gets out of control! I bought a cover for the carseat from Target...
( https://www.target.com/JJ-Cole-Car-Seat-Canopy/dp/B0049O35KK/ref=sr_1_56?ie=UTF8&id=JJ%20Cole%20Car%20Seat%20Canopy&node=1038576|1287991011&searchView=grid3&searchSize=90&keywords=jj%2Bcole&searchPage=1&searchNodeID=1038576|1287991011&sr=1-56&searchRank=target104545&frombrowse=0&qid=1302229583 )
It Velcros in the front so that you can open it up in the car and have it closed for bad weather and germs!