TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I don't think I can even m/c right

Monday I had medium bleeding and some cramping.  Yesterday I just had very light spotting.  Today there is nothing.  This all would not qualify as even a very light AF for me.  Because of measurements I know my lining was thick, it was at a 9, so there should be more than this.  WTF.  Why can my body not even do this right?  I suppose I should be use to this by now.
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Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks

Re: I don't think I can even m/c right

  • Hugs.  When I had my natural m/c mine started and stopped.
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  • Try not to get discouraged.  With MC #4,  I bled off an on for about a week before the heavy bleeding started.  That lasted  about two days and then I passed the baby.  This time, I  had spotting for about three weeks.  I started heavy bleeding about 3 days after Dr. confirmed that I was measuring behind.  I passed the baby after about 36 hrs.   I'm still bleeding and hoping it will stop soon.

    If you haven't passed the baby by about a week from the start, I would call the DR. for advice...or even sooner if you just can't deal with it.

    I know what you mean about feeling like you can't even do this right.  I really wish you didn't have to go through this.

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  • I agree with pp. Mine was on and off for awhile. Don't panic yet.
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    Hugs.  When I had my natural m/c mine started and stopped.

    This. Mine started and stopped...and then started again-for real-two weeks later, the first time around. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

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  • Thanks ladies.  It makes me feel better to know this is normal.  But I just want it over with you know?
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
  • ((Hugs))   I'm so sorry you are feeling this way.  I also found that my natural miscarriages started and stopped.  A lot of times, bleeding would almost completely stop for a day or two, then I would have some bad cramps, pass a clot, and keep going - almost like the clot was holding things up, if that makes sense.  I hate that you are going through this, Kristy. 
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  • I'm so sorry Kristy, this is hard enough without any other complications.

    :::hugs:::

  • I'm so sorry you even have to deal with this (((HUGS)))
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  • Hugs. I?m sorry that you are going through this.

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  • Big hugs, Kristy.


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  • Sending hugs.

    Jenn

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  • imageKristysRedBarn:
    Thanks ladies.  It makes me feel better to know this is normal.  But I just want it over with you know?

    I'm so sorry and I totally get this! This is when the narcotics helped. Would you like a glass of wine? 

  • I wish you luck, the whole process sucks.  Have a glass of wine and find something to distract you.
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  • *hugs*  The waiting for it all to be over with is the worst. *huge hugs*
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