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pillows, penises, vegetables, and jewelry
That is probably the most random of topics but I figured I would put them all together in one post instead of being a PW. This is what happens when I don't post for a couple of weeks 
Pillows - I read the pillow post last week or the week before and it seems that most people gave their LOs a pillow around 12 months. We haven't given the boys pillows. I really haven't thought much about it. Is this something they "need"? I don't know if they would use them if they had them but I wonder if it is supposed to be better for their necks to use a pillow instead of laying flat or if it really matters.
Penises - C has found his penis and will not leave it alone. Everytime we change his diaper his hand goes straight for his penis and he plays with it until we put a new diaper on. I know this is a natural thing but is this how it is going to be forever? Every.single.time.
Vegetables - Our boys hate veggies unless they are in soup. How do you get your LOs to eat veggies? Any tips, tricks, or seasonings you can recommend?
Jewelry - I have a ring that was given to me by DDs father. It is just a small gold ring with a little diamond. It wasn't an engagement ring or anything and to be honest I don't remember why or when he gave it to me. I was thinking about selling it but I wonder if this is something DD would be interested in one day. Some of you know the background and her father isn't the most stand up guy but she loves him and he, no doubt, loves her. Do I keep the ring? I'm sure the answer is yes but thought I would ask.
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Re: pillows, penises, vegetables, and jewelry
Pillows: I don't know that they "need" one, but Logan loves his and has for a long time. Do you have any spare pillows around, to let them try them out before going out and buying new?
Penises: He is a male, so yes, it probably will be forever.
Vegetables: Logan must have texture issues, because he hates most all fruit (except bananas), but he loves these and a lot of them have veggies, too. There are several different brands, and I know Target carries the Plum Organics kind. Another option would be the green smoothies. Otherwise, just try, try again.
Jewelry: Keep the ring, unless you need the cash to keep your electric on or something.
Pillows: We gave DS one when he started using his stuffed animal as one. However, he never really used that one... He has, however, used a full sized pillow (it was dh's) since sometime last fall/late summer. He loves that thing.
Penises: Just ignore it. It'll pass... and it's normal for them to "explore". I asked our pedi about it and she said if he hurts himself yanking on it, he probably won't do it again. Oy.
Veggies: Just do what you can. If they eat them in soup, fabulous... give them soup. DS likes cold carrots and peas that have been cooked. Have you tried that?
Jewelry: keep it- it may mean something to her someday. If you really need the cash, then cash it in, but there is still sentimental value in it. He'll always be her father regardless of how big a jerk he may be.
My kids never have had anything in their cribs with them. My mom always makes me feel like I am such a bad mom for not having a blanket, or just something in there with them. Anyways, my son didn't use a pillow until he was in his big boy bed at around 2.5 years old and even then it took a while for him to actually use it. I can't really offer much there, except to let you know that my kids don't use pillows
My son did the exact same thing as your son. As soon as the diaper came off he'd play with his penis until the diaper went back on. I kept get worried that something was wrong with it (like it itched, or hurt), but my husband told me it was normal, and I think he was right.
My son will not eat veggies, period. Not even in soup. I wish I could help you out there, but the only suggestion I can give is to hide it in other foods (smoothies, pureed into spaghetti sauce, etc.)
I'm sure your daughter would really like that ring someday:)
And, your title of this thread makes me laugh.
Pillows: I don't remember when we gave K a pillow but I want to say it was when she got into her big girl bed at 20 months. I don't think they "need" one necessarily. She seemed to be pretty happy without one.
Penises: I like them too. As far as I know, DH does not play with his every time he takes his clothes off so I would imagine it is safe to assume that the playing with it all.the.time will end eventually (until it starts up again when he's 12 :P). If it's any consolation, DS found his and seems to like it too.
Veggies: Luckily we didn't run into this but I know lots of people hide them in other foods like mac and cheese and pasta. Sometimes if there is something DD is refusing we sprinkle a bit of parmesan cheese on it and that usually does the trick.
Jewelry: Keep the ring and give it to DD on her 13th birthday.
ETA: Just like PP's said sometime around 1 year or so K started using her blanket or stuffed animal as a pillow.
Your title is so catchy. I heart it.
Pillows - I gave DD one right after she turned one. I dunno if it is good for her neack/back whatever. I just thought it seemed cozy.
Penises - I don't know about this one since neither I or DD have one, obviously. DH seems to like his.
Vegetables - I am a fan of giving dip if it helps to eat the veggies. Before you try that, give them a child-safe fork with the veggie on it and let them feed it to themselves. For some reason, that has worked for a couple of my kids. Acting overly excited about it seems to help too.
Jewelry - I don't know the story, but I guess I would keep it. Even though I would be tempted to sell it and buy her something cooler... but you never know what the future will bring either.
I snort laughed at your response! Thank you! I needed that!
I can only chime in on a few of these things.
Pillows: No clue. Had no idea that Princess should have a pillow. I do let her have a small blanket but I'm not sure about the pillow or if she would even use it.
Penises: Yes, this fad will.last.forever! Every single male child I have ever cared for (including Meatball) has had a fatuation for his dangly junk. :-)
Veggies: I'm having the same problem with Meatball's veggie puree's even. Loves Sweet Potatoes and that's about it. There is a cookbook called the Sneaky Chef and it has a lot of great ideas on how to sneak in veggies.....like minced cauliflower in mac and cheese.
Jewelry: I would definitely keep it for DD. Even though he wasn't right for you, he will always be her father and it will mean something to her. You could even give her a chain to wear it on now for special occassions. Or have it melted into something else altogether.
Penises - I think playing with their junk is completely normal. Like my dad always said - it's the friend that will never leave him. Haha. DS usually plays with his in the tub, he pulls on it and nearly rubs it raw. I figure if he hurts himself, he won't do whatever he did again.
DS #1 born January 2010. DS #2 due June 2014.
Thanks, ladies! You are great. Moesten - you made me laugh out loud
I know you are all right about keeping the ring. Just because I'm not attached doesn't mean she won't love it.