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Annoyed with FB status *vent*

clarisa_bclarisa_b member
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So this afternoon a HS friend posts: "Going to the Dr twice a week to monitor the baby is not fun. I wish I could just  sleep :( " This really just bugged me. I would love to be 36 weeks into a healthy pregnancy! I get going to the doctors so often loses it's charm, but she gets to make sure baby is healthy and that he will be here soon. Okay, vent over.
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  • KdgTeacherKdgTeacher member

    I understand that it can get under your skin.  But flip sides for a second, do you think at 36 weeks pregnant you won't complain?  I doubt it.  I want a baby as much as the next person and would be more than happy to switch places, but I also know that there are points where I may be downright miserable.

     Plus, it isn't like she called you just to tell you that.  She put it on FB!

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  • kclg10kclg10 member
    I am ready to deactivate fb because of posts like this!!! Or just start deleting all the complainers!!!


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  • Mrs.SlickMrs.Slick member

    imageclarisa_b:
    So this afternoon a HS friend posts: "Going to the Dr twice a week to monitor the baby is not fun. I wish I could just  sleep :( " This really just bugged me. I would love to be 36 weeks into a healthy pregnancy! I get going to the doctors so often loses it's charm, but she gets to make sure baby is healthy and that he will be here soon. Okay, vent over.

    I understand your frustration. It irks me sometimes too when I see comments like that. However, I do completely think they have the right to complain if/when they're uncomfortable. That's why I utilize the "hide" function so frequently.  

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  • happilyeverafterxohappilyeverafterxo member

    Oh man. I agree with you wholeheartedly. She's so lucky and blessed to be having a baby. I'd go to the doctor every day if it meant I were actually pregnant!

     


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  • leathersmel4leathersmel4 member

    Facebook can be great, and not so great. But before you were TTC, did you think "man, I don't want to hear about her and her pregnancy"?

    Probably not. Things start standing out now that you are TTC. Just read past it, or hide it.

    Fair warning-you will be seeing even more pregnant women around in public. Not because there really ARE more, they just stand out like a sore thumb.

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    imageKdgTeacher:

    I understand that it can get under your skin.  But flip sides for a second, do you think at 36 weeks pregnant you won't complain?  I doubt it.  I want a baby as much as the next person and would be more than happy to switch places, but I also know that there are points where I may be downright miserable.

     Plus, it isn't like she called you just to tell you that.  She put it on FB!

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    Hang in there babe!
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  • clarisa_bclarisa_b member
    Thanks for letting me vent. I don't want to block her or anything like that, and I realize being that far along can be pretty uncomfortable.  I just needed to vent here instead of on facebook. Ha ha, just kidding.
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