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Nervous and a little scared...

Ok, so we just decided to start TTC #1 a few weeks ago.  Since deciding to start trying I have been really nervous about the whole thing.  I'm nervous about everything I will have to go through the 9 months while I am pregnant, what it is going to do to my body and just how our whole life will change after we have the baby.  Is this normal?  Anybody else have feelings like this?  I know that I do really want a baby and I know we are ready so I am hoping I am not the only one who has felt like this.  Thanks in advance!

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  • I'm nervous about these things too, but it will all be worth it in the end. Even if you have the WORST pregnancy and L&D experiences, I'm sure that once you see LOs face for the first time, you'll forget about the all the pain/ drama/ stress. 

     

    GL to you! I hope you get a BFP!  

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  • I felt the same way. Having a baby is so life changing it's normal to feel overwhelmed. I have had time to get used to the idea now and no longer feel so overwhelmed. Good Luck!
  • It's completely normal! Having a baby is a big deal! It will all work out. There are lots of unknowns at first...and then they are here and you just do it.

    I hope you get a BFP soon.

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    Ok, so we just decided to start TTC #1 a few weeks ago.  Since deciding to start trying I have been really nervous about the whole thing.  I'm nervous about everything I will have to go through the 9 months while I am pregnant, what it is going to do to my body and just how our whole life will change after we have the baby.  Is this normal?  Anybody else have feelings like this?  I know that I do really want a baby and I know we are ready so I am hoping I am not the only one who has felt like this.  Thanks in advance!

    You aren't alone, as much as I think I have prepared myself for starting to try, I am still really nervous about what is to come, just the TTC process in general too, and what will happen to my body AND my relationship with my DH...it is all very common to experience this so you are definitely not alone!

  • Having a child is a major life changing event, there is no doubt about it. It is totally normal to be feeling this way. I felt this way when we started TTC. And then when we got pregnant with my son, it was like "my god, what have we done." And with the challenges that come with pregnancy, and parenthood, the rewards are so much greater.

    Again, you made a decision that once it happens, it will change the the rest of your life. There is so much uncertainty and you really can't plan for or know totally what to expect. It is nerve wracking and exciting all at the same time. So it is totally normal to feel nervous.  

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  • I feel the exact same way.  I know that when I get my BFP I am going to be so excited, but I also know i'm going to be terrified at the same time for the exact reasons you listed above.  You are definitely not alone Left Hug
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  • I suffered from an ED for much of my teens and 20's, so I'd be lying if I said I wasn't petrified of pregnancy related weight and worried about being able to lose it afterward. In the end, being a mom obviously greatly outweighs that for me, but the nervousness is still there...and now I feel better to know that other people have nerves about certain other things as well.
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  • Thank you to everyone!!  I feel SO much better now!  All you hear about is how everyone is so excited when TTC and I thought maybe something was "wrong" with me for being nervous.  Also, just went to the Dr. yesterday and he gave me the go ahead to start trying so I guess it's really official now!
  • You are definitely not alone!  I can't wait to have our first child, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't nervous about many things that are going to come along with that - Our lifestyle change, changes in my relationship with DH, how my body will change and how I will feel about that & one of my biggest concerns is how I'm going to balance my career and having a child!  I'm sure everything will work itself out and I have to be accepting of the fact that some things are just going to be beyond my control.  Good luck TTC!
  • I was really nervous when we first started, but those nerves went away as the months continued on and I still wasn't pregnant. Now I'd give anything and that's all I long for. Now I'm nervous that I'll never be a mom... Those feelings you have are normal. Having a baby is a big life change. Don't worry! Smile

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