I had to have a scheduled c-section for my first baby and have never felt a contraction. This pregnancy everything has been great and I'm planning to have a VBAC without medication. I'm nervous I'm not going to be able to handle the pain or that something will go terribly wrong.
Re: Will I be able to do it?
If it helps, I went through 44 hours of pitocin/foley bulb/misoprostil/broken water contractions before I caved to the epidural. It can totally be done with the right mindset and preparation, but in the end, I wasn't at all ashamed for them to stick that needle in my back so I could sleep
I'm hoping for my VBAC in November, and again I'll be staying away from the hospital and all their drugs for as long as I can!
The natural birth board has a lot of posts about managing pain, so check that board out as well as the VBAC board. If you don't mind me asking, why was your first baby a scheduled c-section? Was s/he breech? I had an induction at 41 weeks and my OB called for a c-section less than 12 hours in...for failure to progress. Another OB has since told me he thinks it was a convenience c-section (done at 6PM) so the doc didn't have to come back in the middle of the night. I think my body/baby just weren't ready. I am also hoping to have an unmedicated experience this time.
GL and welcome to the board!
I don't have anything to add since I'm nowhere near being ready for a 2nd yet. I just had to say though, I'd be absolutely furious if my doctor didn't want to be bothered coming back in the middle of the night, so I got a c/section. I was labelled FTP after 30 hours with my water broken, only 4 centimeters dilated, and a fever.
OP, GL to you!!