I am thinking we are on somewhat of a schedule but not exactly sure. He sleeps so much still it is hard to say if this is the way it will be for much longer. Can you tell me your schedule as of now? Like exact time of waking sleeping and eating? I guess I kind of want to co pare to see if we are "normal"
Re: Tell me your "exact" schedule
DS sleeps pretty much the entire day but wakes up to feed every 3-4 hours. After eating he is awake for probably 2 hours after each feeding during the day.
Between 8-9pm I give him a bath, bottle, swaddle, and then I rock him. It takes probably until 9:30 for him to fall asleep though. He then wakes up at 11pm to eat and then wakes up at 4am to feed. He goes back to sleep until 6am then and won't go back to bed.
However, on a night like tonight, I literally just put him down for bed because he was fighting it the entire time and I just let him do whatever.
I am trying to follow a bedtime schedule right now but I am not uber concerned if it doesn't pan out right now.
DS still eats every 2-3 hours and it can vary constantly, so we don't really have a schedule despite my best effort. We usually "start" the day around 6:30 and I try to feed him every 2.5-3 hours from there but sometimes it's sooner. I follow each feeding with "awake" time and then try to put him down for a nap. I'm successful some of the time but not others. He pretty much does his own thing. He has one long 4 hour stretch of sleep around 9:30 - 1:00am but not always. I think he going through a growth spurt right now because he has been napping for 4.5 hours and eating like crazy today. Unfortunately the nap has been during the day so I have no idea what I'm in store for tonight!
DS eats about every 3 hours during the day, and his nap schedule varies. Sometimes he'll take 2 long naps, sometimes he'll take 4-5 catnaps. Once we put him to bed after his last feeding, usually between 9:30 and 10 pm, he'll sleep 5 hours, wake to eat, and sleep 3 more hours.
DD wakes up at almost 7 a.m. on the dot every day. She nurses once, takes a break for a bit and nurses again and then usually falls asleep until 10:30ish. She then eats every 2-3 hours, with one 4-hour nap, throughout the day until about 7-7:30. She then eats, falls asleep, and usually wakes up between 11-12 to eat again before she goes to sleep for the night.
At bedtime (between 11-12) we do lotion massage, change onsie/PJs if needed, get her nighttime diaper on (CD), do some bicycle legs, swaddle and nurse. She usually falls asleep nursing.
I would tell you our schedule, if we had one. LO eats usually every 4 hours, but sometimes it's 3 and sometimes it's 5. Therefore, I never really know what my day is going to be like, when it will start, etc. We are working to have a routine of eat, play, sleep and I try to not have him awake for longer then 2 hours in a row, but I never really know. He's definitely got his day and night figured out and does well sleeping at night, but that's our only accomplishment at this point.
Yesterday, for example, he ate at noon, then 3pm, projectile vomited around 4, slept until 8pm, ate again, slept until 1:30, ate and slept again until 5:30. We "started our day" at 8:30 this morning, he's falling asleep again right now. Hopefully he wont' eat again until after 12, but who knows.
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4:00-Wakes me up half hour early for work so I pop him on a boob 'till...
4;30-mommy gets dressed, daddy dresses Sully/diaper change
4:45-nurse
5:00-Kiss Daddy goodbye, Sully in carseat, we are off to work!
5:30-Mommy drives her student to school, Sully naps/sleeps
7:45-Sully starts waking
8:00- get back home, nurse
8:30-Play!
9:30/10-Nap
11:30-Nurse
12:00-play
1:00-Leave to pick up Mommy's student/Sully naps in the van
3:15-Sully starts stirring
3:45-Get home/nurse
4:15-Daddy gets home/play
4:45-Fussy time begins
4:45-9:00-Some combi nation of crying/cluster feeding and hopefully a nap (or clusterfeeding with short naps at the breast)
9:00-Diaper change, reswaddle, rock to sleep
Dark:30- Sully fusses for food, Mommy slides him from the sidecar into bed, side-lying nurse ans sleep until 4
Rinse and repeat. Of course there are variations, but largely, going to work with me has Sully on a schedule that he sticks to, even on weekends(he just naps in the swing instead of car). We arrived at a schedule accidently, out of necessity kwim?
Sorry for the length...you did say exactly!
I am reading the book "Twelve Hours' Sleep by Twelve Weeks Old" and our schedule looks like this:
7:50am Wake her, change diaper, and dress her
8am Feed her
Play time and try to get in a nap...she is going through a growth spurt so it's been rough with morning naps
12pm Feed her
Play time and naps for about 2 hours
4pm Feed her
Play time and I try to keep her awake until the next feeding
8pm Put in PJs, feed her, read books
about 8:45pm close the door for bedtime
1:45am Feed her
5am Feed her
Daytime feedings are like clockwork and she sleeps great at night. This book was given to me by a friend and seems to really be working