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CGKyleCGKyle
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DH cheated on me before we got married. We went to concealing and I though we where better than ever. Married him had a baby and lived on cloud nine. Today I was onbthe couch and his phone buzzed. I look down and see that girls number. I called because I KNEW it had to be her. It was. Two rules in my marriage. Never cheat. Never talk to that girl again. I am crying my eyes out. Why was I so stupid to think concealing saved us. I asked him why he was talking to her. He said he didn't think it was a big deal. Cause cheating on your fiance while she working two jobs paying for her mother effin dream wedding sounds like no big deal. CHEATING sounds like no big deal. Then he changed his story that they aren't talking. I don't know what to do. I'm in California and all my family is in mo. My phone is gunna die so ill update later. So to vent here. or over share..
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  • NillaWafersNillaWafers member
    Aww honey I'm sorry! That sounds like a horrible situation. I don't know where in So Cal you are but if you ever need a mom friend I live in LA.






     
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  • NoCode10NoCode10 member
    I'm so sorry you're going through that! : ((hugs))
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  • AshtonMainAshtonMain
    Oh no! It IS a big deal! He has crossed the line by talking with her still/again. I'm so sorry. I have no words. Wish I could be more positive Sad
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  • Cam1027Cam1027 member

    I'm really sorry!!  Don't let him down play this, it's a huge deal!

    I hurt for you because I remember that feeling, I wasn't engaged but might as well have been. Please dont hesitate to contact me if you want to talk.... Hugs!

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  • mamareganmamaregan
    I am so sorry you are going through this! But you need to trust your instincts and do what you feel is right for you and your LO. Stay strong mama!
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  • CGKyleCGKyle
    Lo and I will fly home for a while till I figure everything out. He told be i was being crazy and that it isn't a big deal. I feel numb.
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  • NillaWafersNillaWafers member

    imageCGKyle:
    Lo and I will fly home for a while till I figure everything out. He told be i was being crazy and that it isn't a big deal. I feel numb.

    You're not. I think it's a really awful thing to say that after CHEATING on you. There is nothing crazier than that. So sorry :(







     
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