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Sex after baby

EmandChris08EmandChris08 member
in March 2011 Moms

DH and I barely had sex toward the end of my pregnancy because I just never felt like it. We probably would have last last few weeks of my pregnancy to try to get labor started, but I ended up being induced at 38 weeks due to pre-e, so we never got to that point.

Now I'm wishing we had, because I still have another month until the 6 weeks are up and I get cleared for sex again. Plus, since I had a partial 3rd degree tear, it might be even longer before I'm recovered enough for sex! 

Maybe I'm just wanting it more now because it's "forbidden", but also, I think it's because seeing DH as a dad makes me so much more attracted to him... and I just can't wait to be intimate with him again!

 Anyone else feel this way?

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  • GinafawnyGinafawny member
    imageEmandChris08:

    DH and I barely had sex toward the end of my pregnancy because I just never felt like it. We probably would have last last few weeks of my pregnancy to try to get labor started, but I ended up being induced at 38 weeks due to pre-e, so we never got to that point.

    Now I'm wishing we had, because I still have another month until the 6 weeks are up and I get cleared for sex again. Plus, since I had a partial 3rd degree tear, it might be even longer before I'm recovered enough for sex! 

    Maybe I'm just wanting it more now because it's "forbidden", but also, I think it's because seeing DH as a dad makes me so much more attracted to him... and I just can't wait to be intimate with him again!

     Anyone else feel this way?

     

    OMG Yes! When I watch how in love my DH is with my baby I just want to jump all over him. I thought it sounded weird so I haven't told DH how I feel about him becoming a dad. I haven't been cleared for sex yet either but I cant wait until I am. 

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  • AntiquecharmAntiquecharm
    I wish I did but my BF is so absent with help that I can't.  I can't even think about having sex with him.  He has talked about it but I blow him off.  I also haven't felt those excited feelings of him being a "dad" because like I said he is barely hands on with him. 
    "When you pursue your fondest dream, and give this goal your best; The passion that has filled your heart becomes a lifelong test, though others may find fault with this, don't let your passion wane, when you staty true to your beliefs, you have the most to gain." -Encore Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • Tarah716Tarah716
    I'm very ready to get the all clear from my doctor for this - I miss being close to him like that.
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  • jess143hannajess143hanna
    I didn't wait til my 6 week check up to get the all clear! I couldn't help it. Oops! But I should add I only had a 4 pound baby with no tears and a pretty speedy recovery.
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  • soontobehimessoontobehimes
    The other night I jumped him. I only gave him a hand job but I was so into it! Every time I thought I wanted his hand down there, I quickly realized how painful that would be. It was the first time I have been horny in.......IDK how long! He enjoyed it though.
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  • bre87bre87
    i had my postpartum checkup yesterday and was hoping the doctor gave me the all clear for sex but when she went to do the internal exam i want to punch her in the face and all she used was 2 fingers.  it hurt so bad. i know my bf was very bummed when i told him but i'm very in the mood to fool around.
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