Sex Question (Sorry TMI)

Re: Sex Question (Sorry TMI)

• NebMom

  March 2011

  how is she gonna know? she is tucked safely away in the uterus, and CANNOT see your husband's penis, trust me....she's a fetus. she has no clue. it may take you a few times to get over the weirdness, but its not gonna hurt her, and she'll enjoy the movement, as if you were going for a jog or something. don't worry about it!

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• panucci1314 member

  March 2011

  I know my husband told me I was crazy this morning..but I just couldnt think of anything else every other time she just sleeps away and this morning she moved the whole time! Thanks for making me feel a little better:)

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• jesusita2002 member

  March 2011

  Yeah..I have to admit that I feel the same way. If the baby is moving in any way, I have a really hard time ignoring it. I know it shouldn't weird me out but it does! Just wanted to let you know that you aren't the only one!
  

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• panucci1314 member

  March 2011

  Thank you it makes me feel so much better..My friend called me on way to work this morning n was cracking up and I didnt find it funny at all..It really made me creeped out and all I could think about was it and I am nervous that it will happen again and I will wanna stop having sex while I am pregnant!

   

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• NativeFloridian member

  March 2011

  NebMom:

  how is she gonna know? she is tucked safely away in the uterus, and CANNOT see your husband's penis, trust me....she's a fetus. she has no clue. it may take you a few times to get over the weirdness, but its not gonna hurt her, and she'll enjoy the movement, as if you were going for a jog or something. don't worry about it!

  This.  The baby has not the slightest clue what is going on.  She probably just started moving because of the rocking motion or any pressure on the belly, the same way babies tend to move around a bit when the sonographer presses down on the belly with the instrument or when mom is otherwise being active.

  I mean, to each her own, but I would totally not stop having sex because the baby was moving while we were doing the deed.  Sex is hard enough to come by as it is, what with the different pitfalls of pregnancy affecting libido, and will be practically nonexistent for a while after LO comes.  Enjoy it while you can!

  
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• JaysonandKristin member

  March 2011

  NebMom:

  how is she gonna know? she is tucked safely away in the uterus, and CANNOT see your husband's penis, trust me....she's a fetus. she has no clue. it may take you a few times to get over the weirdness, but its not gonna hurt her, and she'll enjoy the movement, as if you were going for a jog or something. don't worry about it!

  I know it's totally disgusting of me, but I'm gonna tell DH this story and heretofore, sex will be called "taking the baby for a jog..."  ;P 

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• Roseallen112 member

  March 2011

  I'm all for sex during pregnancy but I think if I felt him moving around during it would definitely take me out of my.. um zone lol. Not that I think the baby sees it or gets stressed over it, it's just feeling something alive in your stomach while you're being intimate with your husband. I hear ya girl. you're not alone. 

  

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• JrsGurl1823

  March 2011

  this is how i feel. I would defiantly not be able to be intimate knowing the baby was moving and i just wouldn't be able to concentrate!

  

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• panucci1314 member

  March 2011

  Thanks everyone! I obviously know she cant see anything or does not know what we are doing. But the whole time something bouncing around and kicking I just felt weird. Hopefully this was a one time thing:)
  

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