Would anyone consider being induced or having a Csection to ensure that your OB will be there when you deliver. Found out today my OB is not always on call for his patients, there is a 60% chance I'll be delivered by one of his partners...
My thought is that I spend 9 months getting to know my OB and trusting him and then he isn't there when I deliver... !!! I need him to be the one at the end of the day. I just dont know if I should hold out and hope that he is oncall the night I head to the hospital, or if I should think about scheduling my labor with an induction. I wouldn't consider a Csec unless necessary for safety.
What are your thoughts?
Re: Induced or CSection because of OB availability
I was given the same option and barring medical necessity, I think it's kind of crazy to schedule your baby's birthday because of your doctor's work schedule that week. Your *baby* should decide when he or she is ready to be born.
I know peoples experiences vary, but several of my gf's are hospital nurses, and have all told me that for most normal births, the the doctor comes in at the very end for the last few minutes of pushing to basically catch the baby. It's the nurses that are there for the duration of your labor and they are all strangers to you until you check in - so go figure.
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This is what I have heard from many people as well. If you're interested in one-on-one support, you might consider hiring a doula, who can be with you to support you the whole time, regardless of what nurses or doctor is there.
After taking a birthing class and hearing all the things that can go wrong with being induced and the recovery for a c-section I would do anything to avoid having either of those.
I go to a group practice. I saw my nurse until about 30 weeks pregnant at which point she told me to see the doctors in the group practice .Well needless to say that I didn't meet all of them. The doctor that delivered my son I had never met before and honestly it didn't even matter in the moment. Besides it is the nurses at the hospital who you have never met before that will pretty much be doing all of it with you anyways.
The Dr that delivered my DD and I had never met until I was admitted to the hospital.
Honestly, it is all about the nurses and you don't have the chance to meet them before you deliver. My Dr really didn't do much on delivery day!
I would never consider a medical procedure because of someones work schedule!!
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Eh my OB isn't guaranteed either, but with my last baby she came even though she wasn't on call. Our OB office is literally attached to the hospital though so it's easy for her to go back and forth. Lord knows I've missed enough normal appointments with her and had to see a LNP because she had to go to the hospital.
I don't think it's a big deal to not have YOUR OB. My OB came to my room to break my water about 7a, I didn't see her again until his head was basically coming out. I pushed for over two hours with the L&D nurse and my OB only showed up for the last few minutes of pushing. She didn't sit there with me the entire day.
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Ditto.
Ditto this. And this is the reason I spent time with every doctor in the practice already, because I knew going into it that my doc might not be there the day of. I'd suggest you do the same!
Hell no. The baby is ready when the baby is ready. My other two pregnancies my doctor was not there for the delivery. My older son came three days after his due date. My youngest son was born on his due date. I got to the hospital and said I request a female doctor, and they called the one that was there. I was fine with it. That was in MN.
I live in WI now, and the clinic I go to works differently. Near the end of the pregnancy, they introduce you to all of the doctors that work in the clinic. I think there are 5 doctors that own that practice. They do this so you are familiar with each of them, incase your regular doctor is not able to make the delivery. I think it's a wonderful idea!
But I would never rush the baby if it's not ready to come out.
I got the on-call doctor with my first birth and honestly, it's like you barely even notice who is there. The doc breezes in about a minute before you have the baby.
I did have an induction scheduled for my second child and it was for a day when my ob was on call but low and behold, my daughter decided to come early and very quickly so a resident at the hospital ended up delivering her.
Honestly, even if you were to schedule an induction your labor could last well over a day and so what if your doctor isn't on the call that next day?
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