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Opinions please (KU mentioned)

Mrs.C042807Mrs.C042807 member
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There is a coworker of mine who sees the same RE I did. She knows that I was seeing him too. (We even ran into each other at our HSG)

I found out today she had a 3rd miscarriage 6 weeks ago (she can get pregnant, but can't stay pregnant).  She was told by a mutual friend/coworker that I'm pregnant, and while she is happy as she knows we were having trouble, I totally understand she doesn't want to be reminded of her losses by having baby stuff, conversations etc around work. 

I'd like to give her an IF Common Thread bracelet and the information that accompanies it.   I don't know if I should or not.  I'd like to be sensitive about her situation, so I'm not sure.  I was thinking of putting it in an envelope and telling her to open it at home. 

Opinions?

 

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Re: Opinions please (KU mentioned)

  • MnkariMnkari

    I think it's really sweet of you to be so considerate of her feelings.  I think the bracelet is a great idea.  I think she still would appreciate the thought, especially from someone who she feels has been through things similar to her.   Do you wear one?  That might make it easier to tell her what it is.  

     I have had two early losses and even though we didn't nesc. have IF, I really love the message of the Common Thread bracelet.  Could just give it to her on her way out?  That sounds non threatening and easily avoidable if she wanted to ignore it.

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