Yeah I am not really interested at this point. Dh tried to initiate last night (I had my 6wk checkup this week) and I pretty much said to him- 'How about you take DS all day Saturday while I run errands and you can see how sexy you feel after not showering or brushing your teeth, being pooped, peed, and spit up on all day.' After I said that I felt kinda bad because I know he was really excited for me to get released. And I do want the closeness, it's just difficult because when DS is sleeping all I am thinking of is can I sleep too or what needs to get done around our trashed, messy house.
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When DH was home for his short amount of time the desire was definitely there and I don't know if it was because we haven't had sex since Nov (thanks to the Navy) or if it was because we knew we couldn't that it was that much more of a tease for him to be home. Even though I had the desire at the same time I was in so much pain that I knew I didn't want him any where near there and I know that would still be the case today.
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I have some drive but by the time DH gets home from work, we get through DD's evening fussy/cluster feeding time and I get her nursed and down for the night I'm exhausted. I don't make any moves on him.
We did have some afternoon delight today though... and it was good. lol
Dee,
Mommy to: Sofia, born 2/9/11, as well as three dogs, two cats and a multitude of chinchillas.
I totally want him. But he does NOT. GET. THE. HINT. Even if I'm rubbing him up he's still like, "I need to go to bed because I have an early morning." Douchebag, I get 3x less sleep then you and you can't spare 25 min??
i've been waiting for my PP check up for the ok to go. I've been ready to pounce on DH a number of times.... although the feeling is normally a fleeting thought some days and non existant for others.
Re: Sex Drive?
yeah I haven't had sex since oct and I still could care less!
I do think about it a lot because I feel bad for dh but when we finally get the kids to sleep we both just wnat to crash.
I have some drive but by the time DH gets home from work, we get through DD's evening fussy/cluster feeding time and I get her nursed and down for the night I'm exhausted. I don't make any moves on him.
We did have some afternoon delight today though... and it was good. lol