I'm hoping that some of you may have answers to a few of my questions. I am 18 weeks pregnant and expecting my first. My husband is currently in Navy bootcamp, been there for 2 1/2 weeks. I have had no communication with him since he first arrived there. I type A and have to have everything planned and organized, and not knowing what is going on or what may happen is literally driving me crazy. So I'm hoping maybe some of you may know the answers to my questions.
Will I be able to go with him to A school? My husband said that his recruiter told him that I would be able to go with him, but I'm starting to hear different things now.
If so, where he will be stationed for A school there is no naval hospital. The closest military hospital is about 30 miles away. Would I be able to deliver at that hospital or would I have to go to a private hospital?
If I could deliver at this other military hospital, would it be smart to since it is 30 miles away. Will I have enough time to get there? Or should I just choose a private hospital that will be closer to us?
Thank you so much.
Re: New military wife and expecting my 1st
Don't worry if you don't hear from him, he's quite busy right now
As far as where A school will be, that is totally dependent on what his job will be in the navy. My husband's A school happened to be in Great Lakes, so he just stayed there after boot camp.
Whether you'll be able to accompany him to A school is dependent on how long the school is, the longer the school, the more likely you will be able to. That is something that the navy should let him know sometime during boot camp.
Regarding the hospital ... do you have Tricare Prime or Standard?
We live 45 minutes away from our base and military treatment facility, but because it is within 50 minutes they will not give me a referral to the private hospital that is 5 minutes from my house (I have Prime).
My husband is in bootcamp right now at Great Lakes as well. When I got the paperwork I asked his recruiter where the closest Tricare office was and went down there to talk to them. I was put on standard until April 1st then I will be on prime.
pretty sure that they automatically enroll you into Prime, and if you don't like it you have to switch it to Standard. If you end up living somewhere far away from a military hospital then personally I would switch. I'm not sure what the distance-limit is, but I know there is one. Something like if you're more than 50 miles away from a military hospital they'll refer you to a different closer one? But I'm not sure, you'll have to check out that paper work.
And yeah, if youget to go with him to his next school will depend on how long it is. Which he probably won't know for a while, welcome to the waiting game. ;-) the military is hard on us A-types lol, as we hardly ever have any info as soon as we'd like it.
I was automatically enrolled in Standard. If I wanted to switch to Prime (which I didn't because I already had established care providers in the area) I would have had to fill out an application.