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Not IF related: Bullying.

Well my run was peaceful for the first 25 minutes until I saw a bunch of middle school bullies chasing after one kid down the road I was running on, one of them filming the entire thing with her cell phone! I stopped and called the police and when I got to the end of the road I realized there was a group of kids standing there watching and laughing.  While I was on the phone with the police a woman in a red car pulled up and the bullies ran away. The lady followed the kid all the way to the dead end where her car couldn't go any further and the kid ran into the woods. I stopped her after she turned around and she asked me what happened. Turns out that she was the mom of the kid being bullied! When the kids started following him he called his mom. She was very grateful that I called the police and was going to find out who the bully was from the school bus driver. I just can't believe all those kids stood around, took video and laughed! I was picked on a lot when I was in middle school and high school so I have no tolerance for that kind of crap.  I wonder if the kid will even get in trouble since it happened outside of school. 
What the hell is wrong with kids today?

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TTC February 2008 to October 2008 One year forced break due to OIF deployment #2
Resumed TTC in October 2009 HSG, Hysteroscopy, S/A all clear
Five total medicated cycles and IUI #1-3 = BFN and all while we were still "unexplained IF"
25 August Lap revealed Endo, adhesions and blocked left tube
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Ultrasound 12/30 showed one beautiful heartbeat! EDD 17 August, 2012

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Re: Not IF related: Bullying.

  • That is just awful and good for you for stepping in and calling the police. It seems like bullying has just been taken to another level with social media.
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  • I know! i'm sure the video will be on youtube by tonight. it's really, really sad!

    I gave you life, then you gave me mine.

    TTC February 2008 to October 2008 One year forced break due to OIF deployment #2
    Resumed TTC in October 2009 HSG, Hysteroscopy, S/A all clear
    Five total medicated cycles and IUI #1-3 = BFN and all while we were still "unexplained IF"
    25 August Lap revealed Endo, adhesions and blocked left tube
    September 2011: Femara + IUI #4 (IUI #1 post endo removal) =BFFN
    November: IVF #1: Stims started 11/16 ER 11/25 (7R, 5F) ET 11/30 Transferred 2 beautiful expanding blastocysts +HPT 12/6/11
    Beta #1 at 9dp5dt=153! Beta #2 at 16dp5dt= 4009!

    Ultrasound 12/30 showed one beautiful heartbeat! EDD 17 August, 2012

    Hazel Evelyn arrived 10 August, 2012!

    Surprise natural BFP March 2015. M/C at 5 weeks
    Another surprise natural BFP April 2015


  • Well, I think your own memories of being bullied as a middle-schooler might help you answer the question about "what is wrong with kids today?" Kids have always had the capacity to be really mean to each other, and they've always had opportunities to be mean when there are no adults around to referee. Unfortunately, today with cyber-bullying there are so many more forums in which bullying can take place, and it is very hard to manage.

     I'm a high school teacher, and I can tell you that altho each state has unique laws about bullying, kids CAN get in trouble in school for bullying that they do after school. Particularly if the bus driver has any bullying activity on the bus's camera, the school officials are likely to get involved. Most schools are taking a pretty hard line on bullying these days, and trying to do what they can to resolve bullying situations.

    TTC since 2008 DX severe MFI due to chemo IVF w/ ICSI recommended Planning on IVM at McGill in Fall 2011
  • I hope something happens before it escalates.  I just couldn't believe all the kids that just stood around taking video with their cell phones and laughing.  I give you MAJOR props for being a teacher!

    I gave you life, then you gave me mine.

    TTC February 2008 to October 2008 One year forced break due to OIF deployment #2
    Resumed TTC in October 2009 HSG, Hysteroscopy, S/A all clear
    Five total medicated cycles and IUI #1-3 = BFN and all while we were still "unexplained IF"
    25 August Lap revealed Endo, adhesions and blocked left tube
    September 2011: Femara + IUI #4 (IUI #1 post endo removal) =BFFN
    November: IVF #1: Stims started 11/16 ER 11/25 (7R, 5F) ET 11/30 Transferred 2 beautiful expanding blastocysts +HPT 12/6/11
    Beta #1 at 9dp5dt=153! Beta #2 at 16dp5dt= 4009!

    Ultrasound 12/30 showed one beautiful heartbeat! EDD 17 August, 2012

    Hazel Evelyn arrived 10 August, 2012!

    Surprise natural BFP March 2015. M/C at 5 weeks
    Another surprise natural BFP April 2015


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  • Way to go. Bullying is untolerable. We had a girl in a town about an hour away from us, who jumoef iff an interstate overpass because of bullying...it has to be stopped. I teach, and I see it in college levels evwn. But fortunately our school is very tough on bullying.
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  • So sad..  Good for you for doing something about it. 
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  • I teach first graders and you would be amazed at the things we see even at the 6-7 year old range. Kids can be just plain mean! Some of the discipline problems I have to deal with are unreal.
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