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TheEnglishgirlTheEnglishgirl
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Hey girls,

Thank you so much for all your lovely comments, prayers, thoughts and support for me and my DH.

Yesterdays D&C was very straight forward and they are sending off the tissue for testing so we shall see if we can get any results. Feeling ok physically, no cramping as of yet. Emotionally...well you all know that is a different story. Still, it has been a blessing having my family with me and I will be sad to see them go tomorrow. But we do have our planned trip to Jamaica on Monday, why not recovery and come to terms with this loss in paradise hey? Although it is forecasted rain the whole time and I cannot swim in the gorgeous ocean or pool?image

I spoke with my Dr in NJ yesterday and she is going to do b/w on me when we get back and possibly my DH too. I feel positive that they are supportive and that we have a plan.

I was so looking forward to sharing this amazing experience with you all and am sad that I cannot any more. You can find me on TTCAL although I might swing by and say hi.

Much love x?

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  • LindseyS0504LindseyS0504

    Oh, Mary. Your attitude is just so uplifting. I am so glad that you get to go to Jamaica and just get away from all of this. And, almost every time I've gone on a beach vacation, the forecast has been rain most days. If it ever did rain, it rained for at most an hour and went away. I'm sure it will be the same for you!

    I'm glad the D&C went as well as can be expected, and that your doc is doing bloodwork. There's gotta be a reason. I look forward to you coming back here really soon!

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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. I'm so happy your family could be there for you.  I'll keep you in my thoughts and will see you on ttcal, as I still hang out there.
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  • MrsRoehl_2008MrsRoehl_2008
    ::hugs:: I'm just heartbroken for you, but it seems you are dealing with this positively.  Enjoy your trip to Jamaica; it will be a wonderful escape and a good time to you to just hang out with your DH.  I'm so glad your Dr.s are being proactive and that you get a few answers.  We want to see you back here as soon as you are ready.  In the meantime, let us know if there is anything you need.
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  • justgnatjustgnat
    oh no!!! I'm SOOOO sorry! ((((HUGS))))
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  • joanne511joanne511
    I'm glad that you're doing well physically and hope that the time away will be helpful to you both.  ((hugs))
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  • DontblinkDontblink

    I am so glad that physically all went well. Enjoy your trip as much as possible. Keep in touch. You are strong and will get answers and have your baby!!!! Big Hugs.

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    I hope the get away with the hubby will help lift your spirits some. It's never easy coming back from a loss - we all know that. And it's nice to hear that your doctors are really being proactive in finding a solution to your problem. Good luck with everything. Hugs...

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  • moniquittamoniquitta
    I am so sorry you have to be going through this.  I agree that the get-away is a nice way to recover.  Big big hugs to you.
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  • Summerstarr2Summerstarr2 member

    Hi English,

    I am glad everything went alright today, although I wish you never had to go through it. 

    That is so great that you get to go to Jamiaca to escape and recover! How nice is that?!! Hopefully the rain will go away for awhile so that you get some swimming time in!

    Feel free to stop by and say hi anytime!

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  • mmcrockermmcrocker

    You and your DH have continued to be in my thoughts!  I pray that you can emotionally and physically heal at your own pace.  Always here for you!

    {BIG HUGS}

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  • Sueball1Sueball1 member

    Sweetheart, I am thinking about you all the time.

    After my first loss - and I'm talking like 12 hours after I was released from the hospital - DH and I left for a planned 30th bday trip to London/Paris. I wasn't sure how it would be, since I was physically and emotionally so raw.... but it was the best thing I could've done. Just to get away from it all, and spend time together and remember who we were as a couple regardless of all the TTC stuff.

    I hope your trip to Jamaica is wonderful and I'll be doing an anti-rain dance for you - you deserve some beautiful, sunny weather.

    We will see you back here SOON. I can feel it.

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  • Daisy22Daisy22 member

    I'm really really sorry. I do hope you and your dh have relaxing and enjoyable time in Jamaica.

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  • Gregsbride22Gregsbride22 member
    I'm glad the D&C went smoothly and that your family was there for you.  I think the Jamaica trip will be a much needed escape!  I'm so sorry you had to go through this again and just know we are all thinking of you.  I'm glad your doc in NJ is supportive and I just know you will be here again soon.  Big hugs and love.
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  • soon2bRoubineksoon2bRoubinek

    English,

    I'm so sorry you are having to endure this pain again.  But, I am thankful that you are doing ok physically.  You deserve that vacation and a chance to relax and enjoy your DH.  You will be in my prayers.  

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  • SkatcatSkatcat

    Aw hon. I'm so sorry all over again. The D&C day was the saddest of my life too.  

    Jamaica sounds like just what the doctor ordered. You are going to have a FABULOUS time..have some rum drinks for me, ok?

    BIG hug.

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  • marinabridemarinabride
    I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you get some info from your D&C. I think your trip to Jamacia will be a great place to recover and get away a bit. My friend JUST got back from there a week ago. She was worried about the rain too because it said it was going to rain every day. She said it did rain but like for 20-30 minutes and it was warm and beautiful. It is more of a tropical cloudburst and not real rain. Maybe you can drink some rum with your feet in the pool at least!  Hang inthere.
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  • cloud9climbercloud9climber
    (((big ol' hug)))
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  • ocean71506ocean71506
    I am so sorry you are going through all of this. I hope you enjoy your trip to Jamaica the best you can.  I went to the Bahamas after we lost Ava and it was great to get away.  I hope you get some answers and are back here soon!
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  • Redlass13Redlass13

    ((HUGS)) to you sweetie.  My thoughts are with you and your husband right now.  I'm so sorry for your loss.

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