Oh April, I am so sorry! It's a really tough situation and all you can do is be there for them. I'll be sending my T&P to your family.
6/28/10: Lost our sweet baby Addyston at 18wk 1day to pPROM
7/24/11: Michael William born at 24wk 2d due to IC after an emergent cerclage at 18wks, 4wk home BR and 2 weeks hospital BR. Grow strong our little Miracle!
9/17/11: Michael joined his sister in heaven after 8 amazing weeks with us on earth. He fought a very hard fight but NEC was too much for him in the end.
I'm so sorry. That really sucks. But no you are not an irrational idoit. there is no way you could have known and are still allowed to have bad days and your own feelings. I'm sorry for your family.
Re: Update: NBR: I am an irrational idiot
Tyler Anthony arrived on 9.21.09
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