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Babies: 9 - 12 Months
Sept1799
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Possible B-Day Drama
Sept1799
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Ok....
So I will try to explain this as well as I can....
My cousin is DD Godmother. She is from NY and I live in FL. She gave me a hard time about the baptism. She came in the night before the event (fly into a city about 2 hours away) and got into my area around 7 or so. They checked into the hotel and she called me to tell me that her dd had to go in the pool to relax...what?? I said you don't want to meet your GD (Goddaughter)??? I told her don't bother b/c the baby was going to sleep in a little bit. So I guess out of guilt she came.
The day came and the resturant was over early...she didn't come back to the house to continue to celebrate?? They needed time to rest and go in the pool. She lives over 1200 miles away and you don't want to spend the majority of the day with yoru GD? She didn't come early to our home to help dress her either (In our culture the GM dress the baby).
Getting back to now...she had a free 3 night stay at a hotel in Orlando (about 1 hr 1/2 away from here). She is coming down with her DH (I didn't think they would come b/c of health issues of her dh). She is coming the weekend of dd birthday. They are NOT renting a car and the reason is becuase its a "free" trip. They are NOT coming just to see dd or us.
I really don't want to see them. They were rude with her baptism and other things that if I got into I would write a book here. (but for ex we went to NY and they didn't cancel their plans to see us)
I am planning on going to Disney with dd to have breakfast and dinner with the characters. In the middle go to downtown disney and pick her up a gift.
She wanted us to come to her to see her. I told her a story on how we couldn't.
Now that she is coming and we will be in the same town for a day and a half. What happens if we bump into them. What would you say? I know we are playing with fire. But I don't think I want to change my plans for them. I don't want to invite them either. (I can't change the reservations even if I wanted to). They have been really mean to us. I know if we do bump into them we will most likely not talk. I guess I am ok with that with everything they did to us.
WWYD?
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Re: Possible B-Day Drama
I agree... I would just give them the option of meeting up with you but I would not go out of my way to pick them up or anything if they want to see you they can make arrangements...