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12dpo, cd 21 BFN on Wondfo

dreamalotmpdreamalotmp
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I know it's "early" still, but I've been testing out my trigger since 8dpo. The evil little strips have been totally clear of any line since 10dpo and I have cramps that feel exactly like PMS. I get AF anywhere from cd24 - 29, so I feel like she's coming soon. I just wanted to be bummed with people that get it instead of all of my friends telling me that it's still early and not to count myself out yet. I would be 100% shocked if I were wrong about it all. I guess I'm just trying to gear myself up for the disappointment again.

Thanks for 'listening', ladies. 

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Re: 12dpo, cd 21 BFN on Wondfo

  • ellenchris0506ellenchris0506

    Ugh, I hope it is just early pg symptoms.

    If not, and you want to meet up for a drink sometime soon to vent, etc, Let me know. 

    Ellen & Chris 5/6/06
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    TTC Since 10/2007 with no luck and a 'go with the flow' attitude
    1/1010 FINALLY decided to have testing done, dx MFI
    7/2010 - DH starts Clomid to increase testosterone and hopefully sperm count
    10/2010 - Still low (but improved) sperm count.
    11/30/10 - IUI #1 and only = BFN
    February 2011 - IVF #1 w/ ICSI =
    Chemical PG (Beta 1: 10, Beta 2: 19, Beta 3: 17) :-(
    April 2011 - IVF #2 w/ ICSI = BFN :-(
    September 2011 - IVF #3 w/ ICSI = BFFN
    November 2011 - AMH level tested - .83 (normal for age range)
    February 2012 - IVF #4 w/ ICSI = (best response ever yet still) BFFN
    April 2012 - DNA testing - NORMAL, RE suggests cycling again with own eggs or using DE
    On Break indefinitely...not sure we can afford the emotional and financial roller coaster anymore.
    *PAIFW/SAIFW*
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  • madhatterxomadhatterxo member
    I'm so sorry.Sad  But just in case you secretly want hope, I was reading about someone (I think it was on the bump that had a bfn at 12dpo, and got a bfp on 14dpo.  I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.
    Me: 27, DH: 28 TTC since 11/09
    2/10 & 3/10 Clomid 50mg-BFN
    5/10-Lap Surgery for Stage 2 Endo
    3/11-IUI#1 with Follistim and Menopur-developed mild OHSS= BFN
    6/11-IUI#2 with Follistim -developed moderate OHSS= BFN!
    7/11-FSH-11, AMH 1.6
    9/11-ttc naturally with positive thoughts :)
    10/6/11-POSITIVE pregnancy test!!! 15dpo BETA-220
    6/14/2012- Riley Harper arrived!! We love our little girl
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  • Blueyezz0530Blueyezz0530
    Sorry!! Hoping that its still to early and you get your BFP!!!! GL!
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  • sarahtoledosarahtoledo member

    I do the same thing -- test the trigger out and never see another line after.  Sad  It may be weird, but I'd rather "get over it" before AF comes, so around 12 dpo, I do the same thing you're doing.

    I'm sorry you're feeling like this, though, it really sucks.   

    My feet and Miss Heidi the rescue mutt!

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    15 treatment cycles: four early m/c
    Moving forward with domestic infant adoption!

    Home study approved 5/13, now just waiting...

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  • dreamalotmpdreamalotmp

    Thanks, ladies.

    And thanks Ellen. I appreciate that you're there to chat with. Right now, I can't even talk about it without cry choking. But I'll be in touch if chatting would help... you do the same, k?

    Sarah - That's exactly it. I need to self preserve for the inevitable, I feel. 

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  • Delta04Delta04 member
    I'm sorry - I really hope it is still too early for you.  IF is very hard - hang in there.  ((HUGS))
    TTC since 3/07. IVF#1 = canceled. IVF#2 = 0% fertilization. IVF#3 = BFN. IVF#4 = c/p.  
    Moving forward with Adoption 2017!
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