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What... ?

evanandangieevanandangie
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I'm so confused... I've been pregnant for several weeks... I went to the doctor today after some spotting last week... they took a blood test right away... 30 mintues later my doctor walks in and says... well, you had a miscarriage... i'm thinking WHAT??... she was trying to explain some stuff to me about miscarriages happening often and the percent of miscarriages in women with pcos... then she starts talking about me trying to conceive again... and with that we were done... my mind was all over the place... but umm did i miss something important here, because i'm pretty sure she just left me hanging...

All night i've been thinking... why didn't she ask me more questions... examine me... give me any reasons... explain to me what the heck is going on with my body... 

I'm sooo confused... am I 'okay' ? is my body 'okay' ?  when did I miscarry? how did i miscarry? does life just go on?

I just don't think it's normal to experience this and the doctor to essentially seem to not be concerned with what just happened... 

i'm an emotional mess right now 

 

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  • LIa0909LIa0909

    Oh man. That is so hard. I am sorry to hear of this. I'm sure you could call your doctors office, request a followup appointment... but I know I wouldn't be able to call knowing I would probably have to explain the situation. Totally crappy overall.((HUGS))

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    Yes please request a follow-up appointment. I requested a follow-up appointment when I felt that I needed some answers, and I am so happy that I did.

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  • lauralewlauralew member

    I'm sorry you're going through this.  I would call your doctor and schedule something.  If it's going to take more than a couple days, ask to talk with the nurse in the mean time.

    I imagine your body is okay.  It is difficult to have your body betray you like this, but unfortunately, it's also common.  Best of luck!!   


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  • williams4mewilliams4me member
    Jeez, i'm so sorry they should have taken a little more time with you, that's pretty insensitive.  I would call back and schedule and ultrasound to give you confirmation/2nd opinion.  My news came as a complete shock, I had no spotting, symptoms of anything being wrong and when we went in for our 12 week appt that's when we found out the baby's heart had stopped the week before.  My Dr sent us to radiology after that for a 2nd opinion u/s to try and give us a little more piece of mind.  Even with a 2nd opinion it was very hard to deal with, so I can't imagine what you must feel like.  Call back and demand some more answers.....(((hugs))))
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  • sweetface83sweetface83

    OMG!!  Wow that was harsh.  I'm pissed off for you.  I agree with other posters--request a f/u appointment.

    I'm so sorry you're going through this.  Lots of hugs and prayers to you. 

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