Hi,
I finally got a positive test result on Friday, followed by an inconclusive blood test(pregnancy hormones were there but not very high) I unfortunately didnt get to talk to my doc before the end of the day Friday, but from what I read they would have had to keep checking on the levels. Well, I took 3 HPTs today, all negative and then the heavy bleeding and cramping began. It looks like its a chemical pregnancy, which my doctor thinks I may have also had the month before as I was late.
Does anyone have experiences with this? How long did you wait to try again? Did everything turn out okay? I was so excited to have my first glimpse of hope in this trying to conceive journey. I really never thought it would be this emotionally trying...I guess I'm naive.
Re: Chemical Pregnancy? Anyone have any experiences with this?
CPs suck! I was told to wait one cycle and then we could try again. Basically they say that if you were not trying to conceive so hard, you would never know you were pregnant, and the only way you knew was because you took a pg test (hence the the chemical part)
I am sorry you are going through this. ((HUGS))
All of this. It can be shocking how hard and emotional TTC can be-- fingers crossed that everything works out and you are able to have a sticky pg and if not best of luck next cycle. And remember a loss is a loss regardless of how early on you found out-- dont feel as though you cant grieve for what could have been :-(
I'm SO sorry you went through this. CPs are very frustrating in their own way. Get a BFP and then its just....gone. You are by no means naieve! Its only natural to get excited! I hope you get some comfort here and you get your sticky baby soon! I wish you and YH the best!
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This. What you're going through is so so hard but unfortunately not uncommon while TTC. My OB said to wait one month before trying again but I know the opinions can vary. Hang in there, it doesn't mean you won't go on to have a healthy baby at some point - hopefully very soon! Hugs to you.
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I had one a few cycles into TTC #1. It sucked, but I tried not to let it get me down...I personally felt lucky that it was a c/p and didn't hang on for a few weeks- I can imagine that a early m/c is much harder to take. We kept going and conceived Lily a few cycles later.
I did find that the c/p cycle my AF was extra heavy, but otherwise everything seemed normal.
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I'm sorry for your loss.
I had a c/p in November. My Dr said it was ok to try again immediately and there was no reason to wait.
I'm so sorry - I had a CP in December and it's heart breaking. A loss is a loss. We didn't skip a month, but I've noticed my cycles since then are a little wonky. :hugs:
Thank you all so much for your kind and encouraging words. My doctor is advising I wait 1 cycle and she'll have me come in for an ultrasound to make sure everything is okay, just to set my mind at ease and then we'll start trying again and hopefully we'll end up with a BFP that sticks.
I wish you all the best! Baby dust to everyone!
Married my best friend 5/2/2008
TTC our first miracle since November 2010
BFP 3/16/2011 Chemical Pregnancy 3/20/2011