HI there,
I have a couple questions for those of you that have gone to Southdale OBGYN.
First of all, they mentioned today that I will not get to hear the heart beat at my first appointment, which will be at 8 weeks. I was really bummed about this. I recently had a loss and I was hoping hearing the heartbeat would calm my nerves a bit. For those who go to Southdale, When did you get to hear a heartbeat?
Also, the class thing you have to go to before your first appt, do husbands go to those? I don't want my hubby to be the only male there, but I want him to be there if he "should be".
Thanks for your help ladies. I am quite new at this!
Re: Southdale OBGYN question
I am not going to Southdale, but my OB's office said I wouldn't be able to hear the heartbeat my first appointment either- so my husband didn't come a long. Well, we heard the heartbeat. They generally tell you you will not hear it so early, they may try to hear it though.
As for the class, I am not sure what you are talking about. We didn't have to go to a class before either first appointment (this is my second child).
Good luck. Do not stress out too much!
I went to Southdale OBGYN (Burnsville office)
My hubby went to the class, and all the other people there had their SO with them as well.
At my first appt (around 9 weeks I think) they tried for the hb, but when they didn't hear it I got an internal U/S and did hear it
Thanks Ladies! That helps. I just wasn't sure whether to bring my husband along if we wern't going to hear a heartbeat. I don't really think he needs to be there if they are just doing a blood draw.
Thanks again!
That's where I go, and so far I love them. They did not try for the hb at my first 8 week appointment which was with a np not a doc. I had to go back in the next week for high risk referral and the doc tried and found it then.
I don't think many doctors even try that early because they don't want disapointed mothers.
Also, the class was pretty informational especially for the dh's!