Hi - I'm new here and have a question about my DD. She just turned 8 months and still isn't babbling with consonants (she will make vowel sounds such as aaahhhhhh, and occasionally use single consonants - ba, da, mmmmmmm). More concerning to me though, is that she's very quiet. If you talk/babble to her she'll look right at you, but won't make any sounds back. When she makes noise it's on her terms - not in response to another person. Initially I was worried about autism, but she doesn't really have any other red-flags. She smiles, makes great eye contact, tracks people and objects, recently started clapping (which I love), follows a point (not pointing yet - but I think she's still a little young for that) and enjoys being held/cuddled. She responds to her name most of the time, unless she's really into something/distracted by something - then she won't respond. She also doesn't seem to have any sensory issues and is a great eater. She does have stranger anxiety (but I've heard that's OK with babies her age). She also arm flaps when she's excited or upset - I'm not sure if this is normal or not.
Physically, she's hit all her milestones on time or early - rolled both ways by 5 months, sat by 6, she's now crawling well, can get into a sitting position from her stomach and pulling up to stand. Her fine motor is also rather strong - she loves to feed herself and is pretty good with the pincer grasp. So I don't know what to think... I'm getting worried about the lack of vocalizations/babbling - but I'm also wondering if she's just a baby that is working on her physical skills first, and once she masters them the talking will come. I'm considering calling EI - but wonder if it's too early. Has anyone used them for their babies? What would they do to help an 8-month old? I'd really appreciate any thoughts/info, as I'm getting pretty worried about her. Thanks in advance.
Re: No babbling = speech delay?
At 10 months my DS wasn't making a sound except to cry. Nothing. He also has hypotonia and a few other issues so the pedi and I were on the look out for any other possible delays. At 10 months I was referred to a developmental pedi for a general assessment and I called EI and got him set up.
Some kids talk later than others. Some have massive word/sound explosions all at once. If you are concerned I would see your pedi and go from there.
DS was not very vocal as an infant. He rarely cried, didn't respond well when spoken to, didn't respond well to his own name, made eye contact, but didn't point or gesture "on time". He didn't babble that much. We went through a few phases of testing out sounds but once tested, he dropped the sounds.
He had delayed speech and delayed expressive communication (pointing, etc.). He started EI when he was 19 months old.
I started talking with my pedi about my concern when DS was about your daughter's age. Our conversations were always insightful and gave me tools I need to monitor his progress and try to help him along. When he failed to make adequate progress over time his pedi fully supported my call to EI.