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TTC After a Loss 6 Months+
Having a sad day (DH weenie mentioned)
weenie? weanie? wenie?
Anyway - DH has an apt with a urologist to begin the process of getting a vasectomy. God I'm crying just writing this.
I know this is the best option. And the vasectomy itself doesn't change anything. With or without the vasectomy, we CANNOT risk get pregnant again. I couldn't live with myself if we had a 'oops' pregnancy/mc and a vasectomy is the best option for permanant bc free of human error.
I don't know why this is affecting me so strongly. Something about the finality of it all I guess. The admission of utter failure and loss of hope. God this sucks.
At least DH is finally the one getting poked and prodded and not me.
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Re: Having a sad day (DH weenie mentioned)
You have an amazing DH, KP! He loves you very much. I am heartbroken that you guys are going through this. I wish there was someway I could make it all better.
The universe just sucks right now. In fact 2011 sucks.
Big hugs, always!
Huge hugs BGP. I am so sorry you guys are going through all of this.
FWIW I vote weenie as the correct spelling.
Oh hon.
I can't imagine.
I'm so sorry that you're having to think about making it all official.
You have my love.
I am so very sorry. Words fail to express how crappy this situation is.
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April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
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IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12
BFP #1 4/22/10 MC 5/5/10 (6w4d) EDD 12/25/10
BFP #2 10/19/10 CP 10/27/10 (4w6d) EDD 6/30/11
BFP #3 5/10/11 Lucas Abelardo born 12/29/11 at 37w3d
BFP #4 12/10/12 MMC 1/14/13 (9w3d) D&C 1/15/13 EDD 8/16/13
BFP #5 8/22/13 Lucia Elizabeth born 4/17/14 at 38w
Dx: MFI- 3% morph
IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance
Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.
Baby Boy Smudgie born 10/4/11
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I thought your post was saying your DH was a weenie. but no, your DH is far from that - I am so sorry this process is so awful, but I am glad he is taking such a huge step for the both of you.
hugs.
* PG #1 2/26/09: mm/c 4/14/09 at 10w4d | PG #2 8/5/09: mm/c 9/29/09 at 11w3d (boy) *
* CP's 4/14/10, 9/1/10, 4/19/11, 5/24/11, 10/14/13, 11/16/13 *
* Ectopic 1/17/14 - nothing on u/s at 6w4d *
* PG #7 BFP 12/21/11 - DD born 8/31/12 *
* DH Dx'd with balanced translocation in 2011 *
Missed m/c 11.09 | Missed m/c 3.10 | We miss you & love you so.
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((HUGS)) That is a big step. Thinking of you and love you!
2 years of TTC, Seeing RE Feb 09, 2 medicated TI cycles - BFNs, 3 medicated IUIs - BFNs, back to medicated TI cycles until IVF approval, IVF approved in March 2010. BFP on last medicated TI cycle.
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(I'm sorry to anyone who saw this before I came back and edited to add the warning. I'm sorry again!
I'm so sorry KP. Big huge hugs!