The state has FINALLY scheduled an appointment for me on the 31st. I don't know why it's taken so long to get the ball rolling but hopefully this is a sign that we're getting closer to getting some CS!

I'll take any baby steps possible right now...I was freaking out with my savings dwindling!
Re: So after doing nothing for 4 months...
Thanks! My caseworker actually called the next day and I asked what I needed to bring with me and she said well it's to establish paternity...I freaked out!! They finally found him and now hopefully this means it will be soon that CS is started!
Does your LO's dad have the means to hire a lawyer and take you to court? I know a lot of times it's all talk when they start threatening to take us to court so hopefully that's all it is for you. Good luck!!