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TTC After a Loss
lauren.cus
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BFP 1 on 10.30.10 spontaneous m/c on 12.28.10 at 12 weeks
BFP 2 It's a girl! Born 1.18.12 at 39w
Need to vent (pg announcement mentioned)
lauren.cus
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I just need to vent to people that understand right now. Most days I'm fine. But I just got on facebook and a friend of mine did the stereotypical FB pg announcement. I think it's just the timing that hits me. She's 12 weeks now which means when I was going through my loss and she reached out to me she was just finding out she was pregnant. It also means that right now when shes blissfully announcing on FB is when I was spending nights throwing up and in horrible pain in the ER not knowing what was going on. I can feel myself moving on and getting better but it's reminders like these...reminders of where I should be that make me just fall apart. Now I just want to go to bed and cry. Pretty soon I'm going to have no friends left on FB bc everyone I know is pregnant or has a newborn:(. Is this my only safe place anymore?
BFP 1 on 10.30.10 spontaneous m/c on 12.28.10 at 12 weeks
BFP 2 It's a girl! Born 1.18.12 at 39w
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Re: Need to vent (pg announcement mentioned)
I absolutely agree. There's no eloquent way to say it - it just plain sucks. Sorry you're feeling down about this. Hugs to you.
MMC 2.12.11 @ 8w
PVM 5.8.12
GWM 3.17.15
RPM 2.21.19
Clomid + Met = BFP#1 12/27/10, missed MC discovered 2/9/11, d&c 2/11/11, 10w3d
Natural cycle (just Met) = BFP#2 6/3/11, Baby A arrived 2/16/12
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BFP #1 07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles - All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results
Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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even when I was positive it never occured to me to make a FB announcement. I just figured if people knew me well enough they would either see me or be told. but just as privacy or discretion, sorry I wasn't as empathetic before my own loss.
now infant pics, oh yeah, i'll share those someday i hope.(
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2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
I know what you mean -- it seems like everyone I know on FB and my local board is announcing a pregnancy or about to give birth. It's incredibly disheartening.
Ugh I know how you feel. Sometimes I do think this is the only safe place.
My co-worker just had her first ultrsound which reminds me that today would be my first midwife appointment. I feel so sad I'm nauseous.
I hope your day gets better.