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IUI #2 Officially a BFN :(

Started My Period Today.This is the worst cycle emotion wise for me yet all i do is sit and cry,I feel like i need to lock myself in  my house until i get a BFP so i dont have to see pregnant people or people with their perfect little family :(

I talked to my RE & I am going to take a break from doing another IUI this month,we are going to do Clomid & TI & If we get another BFN I think i want to just go right into IVF instead of wasting my time on things that i feel are never going to work.

Re: IUI #2 Officially a BFN :(

  • (HUGS)  I completely understand the feeling of that going to IVF is your best bet.  I don't feel like what I am doing is going to work either.  My DH wants to try this time and one more time before moving on, but I feel like it is a waste of time.  Hang in there and good luck with the next step.
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  • Sorry to hear. I too received a BFN today (my 2nd IUI). I think we will give it one more try before we move on to IVF. But I do understand the frustrations of doing something that doesn't seem to be working.  (((HUGS)))
    TTC #1 since March 09 4 rounds of Clomind = BFN IUI #1 1/19/11 = BFP Beta #1 2/3 = 12, Beta #2 2/7 = 24, Beta #3 2/9 = 24 Chemical Preganancy IUI #2 2/28/11 = BFN IUI #3 3/30/11 = BFN IVF #1 ER 5/26, 30 retrived, 19 fertilized and 9 frozen ET 5/31 1st beta - 6/13 BFP 636! 2nd beta - 6/15 1510 3rd beta - 6/17 2700 missed m/c 7/8/11 8w1d d&c 7/11/11 ttcal FET schedule for 10/6/11 Beta #1 10/19 - 628 Beta #2 10/21 1337 Beta # 10/24 2817 missed m/c at 7 weeks. FET #2 2/21 transferred 2 perfect snowbabies. Please let this be it! Beta #1 3/5 - 1,589! image
  • I'm sorry :( ::HUGS::

    ETA: I am with you regarding IVF.  If this IUI doesn't work, we're going straight to IVF too. Hopefully you'll get pregnant with Clomid and TI and won't need to consider IVF :)

    TTC since August 2009
    June/July 2011 - IVF #1 - Transfer cancelled due to OHSS
    23 perfect embryos. All 23 made it to freezing!
    September/October - FET #1 - October 12th - 2 Grade A embies
    October 20th - BFP??! EDD - July 1, 2012
    Beta #1 = 154, Beta #2 = 352 Beta #3 = 3,800
    U/S #2 - November 14th = 133 bpm! U/S #3 & 4 - November 30th and December 7th = 163 bpm! U/S#5 - January 30th - TEAM PINK!!!
    Baby Sweets born on her due date!
  • I'm so sorry, hon.  Hope the RE break helps.
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  • Sorry about your BFN:(


    TTC#1 for 19 months with PCOS and MFI IUI#3 + injectables = BFP!!!!  Beta#1-134(13dpiui) Beta #2-392(15dpiui) 
    #1 born December 2011
    TTC#2 - Beta #1 -51@10dpo Beta#2 -1353 @16dpo
    #2 born May 2013
    TTC # 3 June 2014 BFP 12-1-14
    #3 born August 2015 
    #4!!!!!!! due June 2017 
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    I am so sorry ((hugs))
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  • Sorry. It just plain draining.

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  • I'm so sorry - IF totally sucks! 
     TTC #1 since 6/09
    Dx: PCOS and MFI
    3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
      3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
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  • Sorry about the BFN :(

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  • So sorry:(  GL with your next cycle.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Daisypath Anniversary tickers daisypath PitaPata Dog tickers PitaPata Dog tickers Unexplained infertility HSG-clear, DH SA-Great 3 cycles Clomid TI with OB/GYN Switched to RE Jan2011 Feb2011 100mg Clomid + trigger + #1 IUI=BFN Mar. 12,2011 100mg Clomid + Estradiol + #2 IUI BFP 3/20/11, Beta #1 12dpiui 174, Beta #2 17dpiui 1660, Beta #3 21dpiui 6687 image
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    Started My Period Today.This is the worst cycle emotion wise for me yet all i do is sit and cry,I feel like i need to lock myself in  my house until i get a BFP so i dont have to see pregnant people or people with their perfect little family :(

    This summarizes my day today to a tee-- it was my second failed IUI too. Jenny, just know that you are not in this alone. Best wishes for your next cycle.  

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    imageJenni83:

    Started My Period Today.This is the worst cycle emotion wise for me yet all i do is sit and cry,I feel like i need to lock myself in  my house until i get a BFP so i dont have to see pregnant people or people with their perfect little family :(

    This summarizes my day today to a tee-- it was my second failed IUI too. Jenny, just know that you are not in this alone. Best wishes for your next cycle.  

     Thankns everyone,I am so glad i found this board it makes me feel better to vent to you guys bc noone knows what we are going through or that we are trying,hoping for everyones BFP'S soon ) 

  • I am so sorry! ((HUGS))
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  • I'm so sorry, it always seems to get harder and harder each time.  I know how you are feeling and if you do move on to IVF right away GL!  I hope that you get your BFP soon!!!  ((HUGS))
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  • IF sucks! HUGS!
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