I live in Germany with Jake and exFI lives in Canada. We webcam every week-end, mostly on Saturday's.
We had planned to webcam yesterday, and he wasn't online. So I called (which is what I always do), he wasn't home. But a girl answered his phone.
It was like a great big kick in the gut.
Re: My exFI blew off our webcam session.
I have no idea. He says that she's a platonic friend living with him to help out with rent. But he's also a liar.
I don't particularly care. I knew it was going to happen some day, I just wasn't expecting it.