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what a day... NIFR
So I was sound asleep and I get a call from my hubby. I think it's him asking for my coffee order.. nope.. he hurt his shoulder at the gym and I needed to take him to the hospital.. So I threw on clothes and out the door I go.
We get to the ER and thankfully he doesn't need surgery, but they have to pop his shoulder back into place. My hubby is a very big and muscular guy, so it took a lot of meds to knock him out...
While we are there though, there was a woman having a miscarriage.. I heard them say she was 22 days pregnant. She was a "not so young" lady like myself.. when I saw her bed wheeled by, my heart just broke for her and I couldn't control myself and burst into tears.. when the nurse noticed, she thought I was crazy.. she tells me, it's just a dislocated shoulder, your husband will be ok.. I tried to hold it together.. but I just felt so bad for her.. and I've been there before.. Especially when I heard them saying to order her blood.. Honestly.. my heart just broke for her...
Husband has never had surgery before, and never been put under.. so come discharge time, every time he would try to get up.. he'd get sick.. so needless to say, it was a very long day...
The meds have made poor hubby feel really sick, so I'm just taking care of him now.. but I need to whine for a min.. I was in the ER all day.. without any coffee or anything to eat.. So now.. I have a migraine.. and plus, crying and then trying to keep my emotions in check took a toll on me too.. So, I'm not trying to be insensitive or "all about me" but ahh I needed to vent and let it out!!!
It was definatley not what we planned for this weekend.. and by all means, it could have been soo much worse.. but it still sucked!
Thanks goodness I didn't finish all that chocolate fudge cake from last night.. because the rest of it is calling my name right now.
I hope everyone is doing well...
Renee- 37 DH - Chad - 39
2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
IVF - May - BFN
6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
10/13 - BFP!!
It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!
2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
IVF - May - BFN
6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
10/13 - BFP!!
It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!
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Re: what a day... NIFR
2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
IVF - May - BFN
6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
10/13 - BFP!!
It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!
Hugs...that is DEF a less than ideal way to spend ur weekend. I'm sorry. I would have felt so badly for the mc woman too, especially w so much bleeding. I had a missed mc, so i never bleed. I can't even imagine needing blood.
Sometimes you need to vent. I hope ur DH feels better. FYI if he ever goes under again, tell them he needs Zofran. I get violently ill from anesthesia...and the zofran is a life saver. Def call the dr, if he is still sick tomorrow.
Hugs for you and get well wishes for your hub!
Thanks!! I bled with my miscarries and needed transfusions.. so I have been there.. and knew just what she was going through..
They gave hubby Zofran first.. and he's still sick.. poor guy!
Thanks for the hugs! I really needed it!
2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
IVF - May - BFN
6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
10/13 - BFP!!
It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!
That's a crappy day- I'm sorry
(((HUGS)))
I hope you get lots of rest tonight (and enjoy your cake!- mmmm chocolate!) and tomorrow is a better day for both you and your H.
awww Nay, sorry bout your crappy day
you definitely get big {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
hope your DH is feeling better!!!
and enjoy that cake!! ---> sending you virtual girl scout cookies too LOL
Happily Wed DH in May 2010
June 2012: DD#1 born after countless fertility cycles, our 4 year old miracle
TTC #2: current cycle: 225iu Menopur for 4 weeks, Ovidrel Trigger= BFP! Beta #1; 333, Beta #2 713! 1st u/s showed TWINS (7/18)
Sorry about your day and hope your hubs starts to feel better very soon. So sad for the woman you saw, that would be very difficult to see.
Hugs!!
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
2004- DX with PCOS
6/2011- Gonal-F + Ganirelix + Oviderl and Crinone= BFP
7/7/2011 Beta #1 119 Beta #2 563 Beta#3 4178
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1/11: IUI #2 = 5mg Femara + trigger + IUI = BFN
2/11: IUI #3 = injectibles + trigger + IUI = BFN
IVF #1 April 2011 ER 4/23 w/16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fert., 4 blasts to freeze, 5dt of 2 blasts on 4/28, beta #1 5/7 = 243... beta #2 5/9 = 491....beta #3 5/11 = 1113!!
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Two C/P and Lots of Tests
Me = LPD + cancer survivor, DH = low count and morphology
IUIs #1-5, January 2011 - June 2011 = BFN
IVF #1 in July/August 2011 = BFP!!!!!
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear."
Sorry you had such a rough day, I can't imagine.
For DH, if the Zofran does not work, there is a patch which works wonders. It is a nausea patch you place behind the ear.
Glad you have the chocolate cake for you!
"When the world says, 'Give up,' Hope whispers, 'Try one more time.'" -Anonymous
Thank ladies for listening to my whine and making me feel better!!!
Hubby still has some nausea and is still uncomfortable. He's going to see his Dr tomorrow. He hates wearing the sling, but he will be fine! He's now knocked out on his meds!!
You ladies are all wonderful and I appreicate the support so much!
2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
IVF - May - BFN
6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
10/13 - BFP!!
It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!