to nest. Is this normal? I don't feel any urge to clean or do anything at all. Does this mean that baby isn't coming for a while? I'm normally a clean person anyway but I have no "sudden" urge to clean as they say in the end of the pregnancy. Has anyone else not had the urge?? I hope it doesn't mean anything bad...
Re: Absolutely no urge...
I've had spurts but not the "stereotypical" urge. I've found with this pregnancy that everything I thought I knew about pregnancy has been learned from over dramatized TV shows. So it hasn't surprised me that I haven't had insane cravings and crazy mood swings or nesting urges.
DH on the other hand...he's a nesting pro!! I could NEVER get him to get stuff done for me when I ask him to. Now I don't even need to ask. Every weekend since my 37th wk he's been working on the baby room, finishing up fix it jobs, he even his part of the hospital bag long before I did! LOL
this was my thinking and why i started cleaning in Jan and I had wrote out this plan of everything i wanted to clean/organize in this house knowing it would take me awhile cause i moved slower and got out of breath easier since i was in 3rd tri. I finished it all by the end of Feb , now i just maintain the dust and organization. it felt like nesting cause i was having a major urge but i knew it was also cause i couldn't do it when lo is here and me being the clean/neat freak i am i knew being in the house with LO and not being able to clean right away would freak me out.
I'm not getting any of this either. My MIL is staying with us for a few days starting the 1st of April so I wish I had the urge to clean! You could eat off the floor in her house. Not so much with mine. I did get a little frantic about a month ago when the crib hadn't been put together and the box was too big for me to move it, but my H took care of it before I could say anything. I also haven't had any cravings or mood swings. If anything, I'm more even tempered than before.
This exactly! I'll be looking around thinking of everything I should do but I don't have any motivation what-so-ever.