TTC After a Loss

Thanks for reminding me...(vent)

So, there was a new girl working at the out patient center where I go for B/W every week. The first thing she did when she walked into the room was look at my papers, then turn to me with a big smile and said, "Looks like congratulations are in order!"
*Ugh*
I shook my head and said, "Not any more". (Thanks so much for reminding me I'm not PG.) She said she was sorry, and then... asked me for a photo ID, "you know, to cut down on fraudulent people". Yeah, because I totally would want to be stabbed in the arm once a week for no reason! In the three months I've been going there, I have never been asked for an ID before. I don't know why she felt the need to see it. That was just weird! I mean, get that she was just doing her job, and it wasn't that she had an attitude or anything, but she just made me feel really crappy! I felt like she was saying to me, "Just a reminder, you're not PG, and I don't believe you are who you say you are." Ugh!

Thanks so much for reminding me, new girl!

(vent over)

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  • Sorry...{{HUGS}}
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  • imageKJsbabe:

    Yeah because I totally would want to be stabbed in the arm once a week

    Ugh I am sorry you had to go thru that Sad. But here's a "funny" story about all my pokes lately.... First, Left hand- the huge green egg and scab where the nurse blew out my vein for my D&C IV. Right hand- a green bruise and scab where she was successful. Left elbow crook (don't know what its called lol)- 3 distinct needle holes and bruises from blood draws (I have very annoying veins)- Anyway, I wore a short sleeve shirt to church on Sunday and this old lady kept staring at my arms and hands and then looking at me and looking away when I made eye contact throughout the whole service... I was like WTH? Finally it dawned on me that she prolly thinks I am a drug addict or something! Hopefully that made you chuckle some Stick out tongue

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  • imageShootingStar0724:
    imageKJsbabe:

    Yeah because I totally would want to be stabbed in the arm once a week

    Ugh I am sorry you had to go thru that Sad. But here's a "funny" story about all my pokes lately.... First, Left hand- the huge green egg and scab where the nurse blew out my vein for my D&C IV. Right hand- a green bruise and scab where she was successful. Left elbow crook (don't know what its called lol)- 3 distinct needle holes and bruises from blood draws (I have very annoying veins)- Anyway, I wore a short sleeve shirt to church on Sunday and this old lady kept staring at my arms and hands and then looking at me and looking away when I made eye contact throughout the whole service... I was like WTH? Finally it dawned on me that she prolly thinks I am a drug addict or something! Hopefully that made you chuckle some Stick out tongue

    Thanks, I needed that! You silly drug addict Stick out tongue

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  • sorry for the new girl.. ((hugs))
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  • Ugh.  How horrible!

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  • Sorry you got an a-hole of a lab tech.  Everytime I went to follow my betas down I always wished that they would not say anything.

    ((hugs))

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  • That is so terrible honey. ~Hugs~  I am sorry.  
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  • Thanks for the hugs, ladies, I appreciate it! A big (HUG) back to all of you!
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  • *huge hugs*
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  • imageShootingStar0724:
    imageKJsbabe:

    Yeah because I totally would want to be stabbed in the arm once a week

    Ugh I am sorry you had to go thru that Sad. But here's a "funny" story about all my pokes lately.... First, Left hand- the huge green egg and scab where the nurse blew out my vein for my D&C IV. Right hand- a green bruise and scab where she was successful. Left elbow crook (don't know what its called lol)- 3 distinct needle holes and bruises from blood draws (I have very annoying veins)- Anyway, I wore a short sleeve shirt to church on Sunday and this old lady kept staring at my arms and hands and then looking at me and looking away when I made eye contact throughout the whole service... I was like WTH? Finally it dawned on me that she prolly thinks I am a drug addict or something! Hopefully that made you chuckle some Stick out tongue

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  • Ugh, I'm sorry you had to deal with that today! It sucks having to tell people you're not pg anymore. ((hugs))
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