Parenting after a Loss

BD: every day or every other day?

WWPALD? DH has no known issues and was tested for good swimmers in May 2009 right after m/c #2 and right before I got KTFU. Yes I k know things can change....
Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
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After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
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Re: BD: every day or every other day?

  • every other - everyday is too much IMO.


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    BFP #1 - 3/19/09 - M/C  - 4/5/09 6 weeks 2 days
    BFP #2 - 7/1/09 - DD born 3/8/2010
    BFP #3 - 11/1/10 - chemical pregnancy
    BFP #4 - 1/2/11 - DS born 9/8/11
    BFP#5 - 7/13/13 - stick baby stick!  Due 4/24/14

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  • IDK.

    We always did every other.  Or less - since my work schedule is weird and we don't see each other all that much.

    Evidently I'm a FH, so what do I know?

    BFP#1 May 17, 2008
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  • I'm not sure we've ever gone every day. It does seem like too much. I'm willing to take one for the team if I have to. I want to be a FH :-)
    Oct 2008 m/c #1 5 weeks, May 2009 m/c #2 4w5d. BFP 6/23/09 EDD 3/8/10!
    You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you stop to look fear in the face. -Eleanor Roosevelt
    After 1 year of TTC#2 BFP May 2011 m/c #3 4w2d. Off to RE.

    Round 1: Femara + Ovidrel +TI = BFP! EDD 2/20/12
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    2IF does not always equal 3IF...Surprise!
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  • When I was having trouble Getting KU!  My OB told me to BD every other day from cycle day 11-24.  We did that and the first month got KU!  I would definitely do every other day! 
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  • every other day! got me KU both times in my first cycle!
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  • every other for sure.

    and some morning in there too.. the count is higher in the morns:)

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  • Everyday all the way!!

    I have been pregnant NINE times so it seems to work for us LOL.  Just got to get the sticky part figured out.

     

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  • We did every day and a half and that got me KU for both my second m/c and my pregnancy with DD. So if I thought I was O-ing Friday or Saturday, we'd do Wednesday p.m., Friday a.m., and again Saturday p.m.
    BFP #1: 7-26-08, natural m/c 6w4d; BFP #2: 12-6-08, natural m/c 6w5d
    BFP #3: 2-26-09; DD born 10/30/09; 7lb3oz, 20.5in!
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  • I say every other day
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  • I was always told every other day. Give DH time to "refuel". That's just what I've been told and that's what we did when I got pg.
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  • In fact I'm pretty sure we started at CD 9 or 10 and did every other day for about 2 weeks just to be sure.
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  • Depends on how my cycle is behaving.  If wonky, every other day since we could never keep up every day- too much BD-ing!  If non-wonky (or highly medicated) with nice fertile signs then every other day early just in case then every day for 2-3 peak days.

     

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  • I think you should shoot for everyday but if you miss a day here or there between CD10 and 20 its not the end if the world because you are covered.
  • For C we did every other day, and when I had tons of EWCM we did it every day.  For Surprise apparently I am a FH like Lkstor so I have no words of advice.  :::KU dust:::
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