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Infertility
not looking good- venting
Started spotting today. Am 11dp3dt and don't have my beta until Thursday. AF should come tomorrow so I'm fairly certain our IVF didn't work. Am heartbroken. We are completely out of options...end of the road for financial reasons. DH thinks I should just chill until we know for sure but this feeling of dread and the circumstances are identical to my last failed cycle. I feel such a panic, like my dream of having a bio child are over...heck my dream of having any child is done, at least for a few years. We spent every single thing we had on all the treatments so far. Sorry for the vent- I'm just so sad today.
Married - 8/2009
Diagnosed right away as sub-fertile. PCOS for me and low motility, morphology for DH. On treatment of glucophage and supplements for PCOS. Completely OOP.
4 IUI's - clomid- all BFN's
IVF #1- 13 fertilized, no frozens- BFN
IVF #2- ER 2/21, 18 retrieved, 12 fertilized. ET 2/24 - 2 beauties. No frozens. BFN.
IUI #5 using leftover meds- BFN
Trying new meds for PCOS.
SAIF & PAIF and prayers welcome!
Entering the world of adoption. Choosing happiness and love and focusing on the blessings we do have instead of the things that we don't.
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Re: not looking good- venting
I am so so sorry!!!! Big ((hugs)) Don't apologize for venting! IF sucks!
But on the other hand, remember many PAIF/SAIF ladies have had spotting in early pregnancy! Don't give up all hope yet!
Good luck with beta!
Dx: DH - Azoo, Me - Mild PCOS
DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
SAIF/PAIF always welcome
a special GL and prayers to my IF sister Gregermis
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Two C/P and Lots of Tests
Me = LPD + cancer survivor, DH = low count and morphology
IUIs #1-5, January 2011 - June 2011 = BFN
IVF #1 in July/August 2011 = BFP!!!!!
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear."
Dont' give up until the beta says you have to..
Big Big hugs!!!
Renee*
2/06 - surprise pregnancy - twins
3/06 - m/c 1st baby at 6 weeks
5/06 -2nd baby had no heartbeat at 14 wks.
D&E - Bled out. Blood transfusions. Week in ICU - Cheated Death!
Diagnosis: Blood clotting and bleeding disorder, immune issues, & cervical stenosis
5/10 - 1st IVF cycle - BFN
FET - 10/12/10 - BFN
1/11 - IVF with PGD - BFN
IVF - May - BFN
6/11 New RE - fingers crossed!
9/11 - IVF - 4 transferred
10/13 - BFP!!
It's a boy! Clint Michael, Due in June!!!
(((hugs)))
I am so sorry you're going through this. IF sucks! I hope AF stays away and you get great beta results!!
I'm sorry, but I wouldn't give up hope just yet!
FWIW I thought for sure I was getting my period last week. I had cramps and felt exactly the same way all I felt in all my other cycles. I always thought I would somehow "feel different" with a BFP. I even texted JLYNN the day before complaining about yet another failed cycle. Low and behold, my beta came back + and with a pretty high number for 9dp5dt! I'm not a "blow smoke person" but thought it might help to tell my story. I hope your beta also brings a surprise.
After 4 years, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs our surprise miracle is here!
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TTC # 2 BFP 03/02/13 = CP, BFP 05/14/13 = CP, BFP 08/09/13 = CP
RPL testing = normal
TI Cycle #1, 50 clomid days 3-7, 150 iu Follistim days 8-11 = BFP! EDD May 22, 2014
Betas: 13 DPO = 79, 15 DPO = 149, 19 DPO = 788, 22 DPO = 2031
I am so sorry...
do you think it might be implantation spotting. My nurse told me I ould not start a period due to the PIO shots even if i wasnt pregnant. I would need to stop the shot before it would start.
Praying you get a surprise beta result!!
3 failed IVF with OE and 2 failed frozen DE cycles
Last fresh hail mary DE cycle starting Feb 2013
PAIF/SAIF always welcome
SAIF/PAIF Always Welcome!
TTC #1 May 2008
6 Rounds Clomid, 1 Round Femera-BFN
4 IUIs (1 Clomid, 1 Femara, 2 injectables)-BFN
February 2010-Laparoscopy
4 months of Lupron
August 2010-IUI #5-BFN
October 2010-IUI #6-BFN
IVF #1 November 2010-BFN
IVF #2 March 2011-BFN
TTC since 2008 dx PCOS & MFI
Clomid/Femara no "O"
IVF #1 BFN
FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
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Don't give up yet!!
I'm keeping you in my prayers.
Keep me updated.
Wedding Fall 2007 Off OCP's since 9/08-started with BBT charts Saw Ob/gyn May 2009 Blood work normal except single copy of MTHFR Clomid 50mg May 2009 Clomid 50mg + IUI June 2009 Femara 5mg + IUI July 2009 Normal HSG July 2009 Femara 5mg + ovidrel+IUI August 2009 Femara 5mg +ovidrel + IUI September 2009 November 2009-normal lap December 2009-met with RE December/January-Injectible med cycle with IUI-Abnormal sperm morpology found-only 0-1% normal All Head defects. Jan/Feb 2010 1st IVF with ICSI-5 week chemical pregnancy
Feb 2010-male infertility doc says DH's anatomy and blood work are normal so nothing he can do. 
FET July 2010-BFP! Twin m/c @ 5.5 wks 
Dec/Jan 2011 IVF #2 Only 4 eggs retrieved-Ganirelix dose messed up BFFN
Feb/March 2011 IVF #3 ER 3/9 9 eggs, 7 fertilized, ET 3/14, No frosties. BFN
IVF #4 ER 8/22 9R,7F ET 8/25-3 embies, 1 frostie! Beta 9/2= 54, 9/6=274, 9/8=625, 9/12=2953, 9/16 greater than 10,000. B/G TWINS born April 2012 @ 36wks & 1 day!
July 2014-going back for the frozen embryo! ET 7/28, heartbeat seen at 6wks1day with SCH. Miscarriage confirmed at 6wks4days