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Hiiii! I have an INTRO and a VENT

First of all to those I don't know, I'm Saucy. :) Hi! I was a regular over on TTGP for a while but have slowly been contemplating making the move over here. I guess today is as good a day as any! 

Here's my story thus far:

TTC since 2/2010, about to start cycle 15. Started seeing an RE last month. HSG & PCT tests were both normal. H's SA results were normal.

Unfortunately, I'm already starting to really doubt my RE and lose faith. RE says he suspects I might have endometriosis but I'm really not sure what that is based on since I have no signs or symptoms. It seems this next cycle he wants to put me on Clomid and do IUI. I guess I'm unsure if that's the right path for me or not since we still don't know what is "wrong" with me, ya know? Also, they took my blood for a progesterone test on 4dpo....I don't know much but I always thought that Progesterone was supposed to be tested on 7dpo...? (FTR, they said my progesterone levels were "excellent")

Also, they never seem to know what is going on with me at any given time. Every time I have gone they have asked me something that could easily have been answered by looking at my chart and they seem to be asking the same things over and over. I have been asked at least 3 times if I did IUI this cycle....ummmm no! And isn't that something you all should know without me telling you?!

Anyway, my period is starting as we speak so they want me to come in on Monday for an ultrasound and to get my Clomid script. I guess we'll see what happens then and if I get more clear answers and direction. If anyone has any tips on things that I should ask (about a Clomid + IUI cycle or whatever) by all means throw 'em my way!

I'm looking forward to getting to know those of you who I don't know and if you got this far then THANK YOU for reading my ramblings. It's really hard to put all of this in a succinct post! :)

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  • welcome & i hope you get more answers from your RE

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  • I was wondering what happened to you since I hadn't seen you post in a bit. I'm sorry that you don't feel confident in your RE. Hopefully everything will get sorted out and you're able to get what you need from them. GL!
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    Clomid + IUI is a pretty common place to start if you are unexplained.  I would be more concerned about your RE if they failed to monitor you in your clomid cycle.  That being said, if you aren't 100% comfortable with your RE, you could always look for a new one. 

    How did your day 3 testing go?

    Good luck!

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    Me= 37 and DH = 41 

    Dx: DOR, Endo, APA+ (really high beta 2 glycoprotein antibody and high everything else tested), heterozygous MTHFR mutation, positive for lupus anticoagulant, high FSH, low AMH and both tubes blocked (per HSG on 3/8/11)

    IVF #1 - long lupron (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 4 retrieved, 3 fertilized; ET 2 blasts and 1 frozen = BFN

    IVF #2 - a version of antagonist with EPP (with HGH, intralipids, lovenox and BA); 6 retrieved, 4 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 blasts and 1 frozen blast transferred on day 5 = BFN.

    IVF #3 April was postponed to May, May was canceled. June/July was canceled. Had a cyst aspiration and then began IVF #3 in August. ER on 8/22; ET on 8/24 with AH. +HPT on 9/5. Beta #1 (11dpo) = 3; Beta #2 (15dpo) = 29; Beta #3 (17dpo) = 60; Beta #4 (19 dpo) = 118. Heartbeat at 6 weeks 6 days =132.  Lil is here!

    TTC#2:  Trigger + TI = BFN; Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN.

    IVF #4:  BCP + MDLF + Lovenox = 7R, 1F = Transferred 1 6-cell embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #5:  MDLF + Lovenox = 4R, 1F = Transferred 1 10-cell compacting embryo on day 3 = BFN

    IVF #6:  (New RE):  Long Antagonist November 2014 (transferred two 8 cell grade 1 embryos and froze one blast) = BFN

    FET#1:  BFN

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    And hugs to you!

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  • Welcome and good luck this cycle!

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  • Hi Sassyfrass! Big Smile I've missed your loveliness! 

    I hate that you have to be here, but I welcome you aboard. I hope you don't stay very long.

    Getting a normal result for your PC and SA is good news! I am happy for you! 

    My best advice is to go with your gut instinct. If you are feeling that this RE is not the one for you then maybe you should start looking for another one. You can always give this RE a chance and go ahead with the first cycle. If you are still not convinced or comfortable with them, then you can move on. Don't settle for less than you expect from them. Also, you should ask about their success rates with IUI. 

    Sorry about AF, it never gets easier to see that bia.

    XOXO 

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  • Saaauuuucy!  I am glad to see you but sad to see you over here :(  Welcome to the board, the women on here are awesome.  I have no advice for you in regards to the  clomid + IUI but if you are having 2nd thoughts or questioning your RE, find another one if possible.

    It's tough enough to go through this process but you need to feel comfortable and have confidence and trust in your RE through whatever treatment plan you go through.  GL, hun!

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  • Welcome.  The ladies here are great.  :)

    Good Luck with whatever you choose to do regarding your RE.  Hopefully your first Clomid / IUI cycle will result in your BFP so you won't have to even worry about it. 

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  • Welcome! 

    TTC since 2010

    lots of IUIs and 1 IVF all BFNs

    FET currently on hold

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  • Hey Saucy, we didn't talk too much over on TTGP, but I remember seeing you post some right before I moved over here. I'm so sorry you have to be here, but you are in good company.

     I hope your RE office gets its act together. That just isn't cool that they don't know what's going on with you. If you aren't comfortable, don't feel bad at all to go elsewhere (if that's an option). 

     Best of luck!

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    **TTC since 04/09, C/P 02/02/10; 4 weeks, 3 days**
    **Dx: Anovulation, Hypothryroidism, Mild Endo, Pituitary Adenoma (prolactin issues), PAI-1, MFI **

    **7/10: Clomid + TI= BFN**
    **3/2/11: 1st RE appointment**
    **DH= Morph= 2%, Motility= 30%**
    **HSG= All clear!!**
    **3/11: Femara + Pregnyl + TI= BFN**
    **5/17/11: Laparoscopy / hysteroscopy = mild endo**
    **7/11: Novarel + IUI #1= BFN (7mil, 75% motility, 2% morph)**
    **8/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #2= BFN (11mil, 35% motility, 1% morph)**
    **11/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #3= BFN (9mil, 2% morph)**
    **Jan 2012: Follistim (75ius) + IUI #4= CANCELLED due to cyst -put on bcp**
    **Feb 2012: Follistim (75ius) + Novarel + IUI #4.2= BFFN (2.5mil, 13% motility, 1% morph)**
    **Mar 2012: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5= CANCELLED due to 35mm & 14mm cysts**
    **On med break indefinitely...IF Sucks!**

    **Jan 2013: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.2= CANCELLED due to high prolactin level, MRI scheduled, pituitary adenoma found, put on Dostinex**
    **Mar 2013: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.3= CANCELLED due to uterine polyp, surgery scheduled for polypectomy and D&C**
    **03/22/13: Hysteroscopy, polypectomy and D&C**
    **May 2013: Finally got to start a cycle!!! Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5.4 = BFFN (6mil, 74% motility, 2% morph)** 

    **Jun 2013: Decide to start IVF**
    IVF w/ICSI #1 (Long Lupron Protocol)
    06/26/13: Start BCPs
    07/02/13: HSG #2= all clear
    07/15/13: Start Lupron 10 ius
    07/25/13: Suppression check
    07/28/13: Start stims (225IUs Follistim + 75IUs Menopur) drop to 5 IUs Lupron
    08/01/13: Monitoring: 12 follicles all about 10mm, E2- 313
    08/04/13: Monitoring: 18 follicles (15mm, 13mm, a few 11mm, rest 10mm or below) E2- 1,505
    Start Augmentin- antibiotic prep
    08/06/13: Monitoring: 13 follicles (18mm, 17mm, rest b/w 15mm-16mm!) Ready to trigger!! E2- 2,248
    08/08/13: ER-- 14R, 13M, 10F 
    08/11/13: One fertilized late, we now have 11 embryos!
    08/13/13: 5dt-- 2 blasts (Sheldon and Penny) 3AA and 3BB, none to freeze
    8/23/13: BFFN... Sheldon and Penny didn't stick**

    **8/29/13: Follow up... bad fragmentation issues. Changing protocol to Antagonist for round #2 coming soon! Also started on 81mg Aspirin after getting blood panel done and found out I have PAI-1**

    **Oct 2013: After large cysts, finally starting IVF #2**
    IVF w/ICSI #2 (Antagonist Protocol)
    BCPs started back in Sept due to cysts
    10/27/13: Start stims (225 IUs Gonal-F + 75 IUs Menopur)
    11/03/13 - 11/05/13: Add Ganirelix to the mix
    11/06/13: 3 follicles at 18mm-- Ready to trigger!
    11/08/13: ER-- 17R, 13M, 8F
    11/13/13: 5dt-- 2 blasts (Luke and Leia) 5AB and 4AB, 1 frostie
    11/20/13- 11/23/13: light positives on FRERs and Wondofos
    11/22/13: BFN per RE office (under HCG of 10)
    11/27/13: CP ::sigh::

    *12/03/13: Follow up...great response and quality this time, was given 50% chance of it working, just didn't stick. Great plan for 2014! 

    **Jan 2014: Last IVF of our SRP**
    IVF w/ICSI, freeze all, then FET
    12/27/13: Start BCPs
    01/19/14: Stims (375 IUs Gonal-F + 75 IUs Menopur)

    Congratulations Cutebride!! --TWINS!! Congratulations, Luvie, on your sweet boy! Congrats, Jess! So happy for you ladies! <3<3  
    ~~Also best of luck to Kati, illinigal, and youngin!~~

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  • Welcome.  No answers, just wanted to say good luck!



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  • hey girl!  So sorry you have to be here :(.  Glad the SA went well...how was CD 3 testing?

    I'm sorry you're unhappy with your RE.  It's so frustrating when you feel like just another number.  is there another RE in your area?
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  • Welcome! Clomid+IUI seems like a really reasonable place to start, especially if so far you are unexplained. I wouldn't be weary of the treatment plan but if you don't get a good vibe from this RE and/or the office, it is definitely a good idea to shop around for someone with whom you are more comfortable, either after giving this RE a trial run with this upcoming cycle, or right now before even starting a treatment cycle. Good luck!!?
    IUIs #1-3 (1x unmedicated, 2x Clomid) = 2 BFNs, 1 m/c at 7w3d
    IUIs #4-6 (injects) = 3 BFNs
    IVF #1 = BFN
    FET #1 = BFN
    FET #2 = BFN
    IVF #2 = BFP, b/g twins lost at 20w due to partial abruption/PPROM
    IVF #3 = c/p 5w2d
    Long-shot Clomid/Prednisone cycle before next IVF = BFP, our beautiful, healthy girl born 6/26/13!
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    FET #3 - May/June 2014
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    IVF #4 - July/August 2014 
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  • Hi, Saucy! I've been lurking/posting over here a bit more, too. As many have said, Clomid/IUI is kind of the standard first treatment for most REs it seems (as long as you're a candidate for it), but there is no shame in finding a new RE if you're not comfortable with the one you have been seeing. Good luck!
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    Hi Saucy!  It is nice to meet you - welcome!  I just changed REs and I feel like it was the right decision for me.  My old REs office was constantly getting scheduling messed up and things have just gone much smoother since I transfered.  So I say if you aren't comfortable and can switch, do it!!  

    Diagnosed PCOS 2/07, TTC #1 since 8/09
    11/10 - Clomid Round 1 = BFN
    12/10 - Clomid Round 2 = BFN
    1/11 - Voluntary Break = BFN (duh)
    2/11 - Clomid Round 3 = BFN
    3/11 - Femara + IUI = BFP * Beta#1=56 * Beta#2=266
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    welcome and good luck with your cycle! I would do one cycle with this RE and if you are not happy then I would think about switching.
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    hey, girl! sorry you have to be here, but happy to have you.

    Will your insurance refer you to another RE? If so, I would switch. We unfortunately can only see one MD in the whole state so we are stuck for now.

    good luck!

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    hey girl!  So sorry you have to be here :(.  Glad the SA went well...how was CD 3 testing?

    I'm sorry you're unhappy with your RE.  It's so frustrating when you feel like just another number.  is there another RE in your area?

    Hey Magnolia!

    About the CD3 testing - they haven't done that yet. Is it bloodwork or ultrasound? I'm going in tomorrow for an ultrasound prior to receiving the script for Clomid but I will actually be on CD2 (thought I would be on CD3 but AF was late). What are they testing for with CD3 testing? 

    Sorry for all the questions but these are things I need to be prepared to ask them about tomorrow and I appreciate yall bringing them to my attention.

    As far as another RE, I did see that there is another one in the area but I'm not sure if my insurance would let me go there....I might look into it if I continue to feel uncomfortable with them. 

    Thanks so much for the response! I bow to your wisdom! ;-)

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  • Welcome! I'm sorry you have to be here. I hope you get things worked out with your RE and you feel more comfortable with him. Good luck today!
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    2/2010 - 5/2010 Testing with OBGYN
    8/2010 First RE Appointment
    11/2010 Second Opinion RE Appointment
    12/2010 Clomid + IUI #1 = BFN
    1/2011 Clomid + IUI #2 = BFN
    2/2011 Clomid + IUI #3 = BFN
    5/2011 IVF #1, ET 6/2, Beta 6/15 = BFN
    8/2011 FET ET 9/12 = BFN :0(
    On a break to save money.
    1/2012 IVF #2 ER 1/12, ET 1/15, Beta 1/27 = BFFN
    4/2012 FET ET ??/?? =
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  • Welcome to the board! I would agree with OP, and encourage you to trust your instincts. I've had some lingering questions for my RE that my gut told me to ask months ago, and I never did because I didn't want to hold up the process and "waste" a cycle. Well, now I'm still not pg, and I wish I had asked the questions sooner.

    Good luck in whatever you decide. I hope your stay here is short and sweet!

    TTC #1 since Oct 2009, Dx: Unexplained Infertility
    HSG: Right tube all clear, left tube inconclusive
    3 failed Clomid Cylces
    4/5 lap revealed blocked left tube, but right tube is open
    April/May- 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #1= CANCELLED left ovary ovulating
    June 1- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #1 = BFN
    June 28- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #2 =BFP!
    7/12 Beta #1= 14 Beta #2= >5 Chemical Pregnancy :(
    July-Nov long break to recover emotionally and financially
    Nov 24- 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI #3= BFN
    Jan 22- Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI# 4 = CANCELLED no response on right
    IVF #1- Start stims 4/7, ER 4/20, 21R, 14F, 6 frosties, ET 4/25, 2 embryos transferred= BFN :(
    FET #1- June 2012, Lurpon starts 5/27- CANCELLED
    FET #1 take 2- August 2012, delayed until Sept-CANCELLED
    FET #1 take 3- ET 10/11, 2 embryos transferred,= BFFN
    FET #2- Transfer 12/4--Cancelled, no embies survived thaw :(
    Next steps-- IVF #2 with new RE in March
    HOLY SURPRISE BFP 2/15/13!!!! Beta 1- 286, Beta 2- 782, First Ultrasound 2/25- baby in uterus & all looks good!


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  • Hey Saucy!! I'm sorry you have to be here, but welcome to the board! I hope you are able to work things out with the RE or find a new one. Good luck and ((HUGS)) to you! :)
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