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ailidespainailidespain
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Apparently my H isn't interested in sex anymore as I initiated last night and got turned down...this never happens. As if I didn't feel unattractive as it is.

I want to cry.Sad

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  • kdiditkdidit

    I know exactly what you mean!!! My boyfriend doesn't do it ALL the time, but sometimes when I initiate it he pulls the  "Babe I have work early tomorrow.." So it always makes me wonder if he still even finds me attractive.

    Everybody talks about the "Pregnant Glow" and how beautiful you're supposed to be but that's the farthest from how I feel!

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  • ailidespainailidespain
    lame.
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  • mcginnie86mcginnie86
    Aww, talk to him about it! I'm sure he has reasons other than not finding you attractive. Pregnancy is difficult and confusing for our guys. They don't really know what we're going through and sometimes they're overly cautious. My H recently told me he's afraid of hurting the baby, even though I and the doctor have told him that he won't. He says he just can't get it out of the back of his mind that he's going to be too rough and hurt the baby. So now we mostly stick to other kinds of sexual contact other than actual intercourse. I'm sure you'll figure something out that works for both of you if you can just communicate openly about it.
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  • seastar77seastar77
    Remind him that now's the time! In a few weeks, he'll be wanting it and you'll be unable or unwilling Stick out tongue It's amazing how after you get the "all clear" from the Dr, when faced with the choice between even just 15 min of sex or 15 min of sleep, sleep will win out every time! lol
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  • ailidespainailidespain
    yah that is why I am trying to get it in now lol since I am being induced in 11 days!
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  • BeetleLinz1125BeetleLinz1125 member

    imageseastar77:
    Remind him that now's the time! In a few weeks, he'll be wanting it and you'll be unable or unwilling Stick out tongue It's amazing how after you get the "all clear" from the Dr, when faced with the choice between even just 15 min of sex or 15 min of sleep, sleep will win out every time! lol

    This is what I'm trying to drill into DH's head right now...I think it's working lol.  It's taking some convincing, but I am determined to get some tomorrow morning lol.

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  • ailidespainailidespain
    lol they should feel lucky we still want to do it, with how miserable the last few weeks of pregnancy are!
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