I thought it would be fun to post the Mom rules about which we are pretty adamant. Then let's post again come May and see how it is going.
2nd+ time moms, share what yours were and where you stand now.
Here are mine:
1. I will never have my kid sleep in our room or co-sleep: This went out the window week 2 when I realized I could get 10 straight hours of sleep if DS slept in our bed! We will try this rule again with # 2.
2. I will never have one of the kids with the cruddy faces: After about 15 months, I gave up the battle. I could wipe his face 12 times an hour and it is still cruddy!
3. I will never let my kid eat tons of junk food: I have stuck with this! From EBFing, to making my own baby food and now sneaking veggies into everything possible, I feel DS is getting good nutrition. Me on the other hand..bring on the cookies :-)
Re: As a mom, I will never....
1. I said I would never keep a journal of input/output. After forgetting several times when the last feeding/change was, I journal everything.
2. I never wanted to be one to update facebook with only baby updates. In the last week that's all I've done. I will NOT have any diaper/breastfeeding updates though.
3. I also said I would never put those cute bows or headbands on her. Since she was born with a head full of beautiful brown hair, I have to get some asap!
It's only been a week for me so I'm sure there's a lot more of my never's to come.
Never say never
1. I had some strong opinions about bed-sharing and co-sleeping, but after having a child that is a pretty wacky sleeper it's the only way we get sleep. I will continue to try to get her to sleep independently, but we shall see.
2. Let me child hang out in a onesie all day instead of putting her in cute outfits. Um, lets call this a silly first time mom thing. If I had any idea how work it can be to get those things off and on for diaper changes.....
I think that's all.
Never say never... okay, that's not a plug for Bieber.
You never know what you'll do if you're desperate enough. Trust me. I've done several things in the past week that I said I'd never do.
Life of mrsjanks
your #2 and #3 are mine too...I am SURE I will cave with the last one if I have a girl and #2 went out the window soon after I announced to the world. Oh well...if people get tired of it they can hide my posts!
1) Use TV as a baby sitter. This is my number one pet peeve, especially for children under 2.
And that's about it. I'm willing to go with the flow on almost everything else.
Oh, I thought this one, too! Just this morning though, I popped in a DVD and took an 30 min nap while DS watched it!
I think I must have had more "rules" than most of you 1st time moms! It is awesome that you are all so open minded and flexible!