TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

apology

I just wanted to tell all of you ladies that I am sorry for my BFN post the other day.  I  didn't know everything that a lot of you were going through. After reading todays posts, my heart breaks for you ladies who have gotten so much bad news the last couple of days. It isn't fair at all.  I am so so sorry you are all going through this. 
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  • Thanks for the apology, Penny. Like you said, you didn't know what everyone else is going through this week. And regardless, each of us can only go through what we're going through. So I guess now you've had your BFN frustration put into perspective on the macro level; but on the micro level, our individual frustrations are our individual frustrations and that's all any of us are trying to contend with.

    I don't know if that made any sense at all, but I hope you can kinda smell what I'm steppin' in. (Yes, the ANTM Caridee quote was intentional) 

    Edit for typo. 

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  • Hugs and love to you, Penny.
    Forever buddy to Angelica; Natural Miscarriage Jan. 2008 @ 11 weeks; 2 years of BFFN's; DX: Unexplained IF (RE thinks IF is due to tubal issues); IUI #1 & 2= BFFN; IUI#3 = BFP, resulted in Cornual ectopic pregnancy; IUI #4 - 6 =BFFN; Our next endeavor... IVF. 1 grade AA embryo transferred on 4-23-2011 and 5 frosties. BFP Abby born 1/5/2012

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  • Hugs Penny.
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    Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle!
    April 2011 CP @ 5 weeks
  • Oh sweetie, no worries.

    Your heartache and frustration is real - regardless of what others are dealing with it doesn't change (and shouldn't diminish) what you're going through. The timing kinda sucked and it hit a nerve with several of us is all but it's in the past.

    Huge hugs!!

  • We all have our issues, no matter how big or small, they are ours. Big hugs, hon!

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
    11/26/11 Surprise BFP * DD born 7/23/12 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Hugs & no apologizes needed.  We're all crawling through our own shitstorm that is this journey & you're entitled to be sad sometimes too.  Your compassion is heartwarming.
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • Sending hugs.

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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