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So Today Someone Said....

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Did I see a little baby bump?? Angry Thank goodness for my coworker who told her to shut up. After my coworker gave her a dirty look she said "I really try hard not ask people that" Zip it!

Thank goodness I was the bigger person and didn't ask HER if that was a baby bump that I saw because her bump was bigger than mine......Indifferent

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  • kate626kate626

    I am sorry she said that to you... People need to think before they talk.

     

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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member

    Need me to punch her in the face??? lol

    I'm really not violent, but I like to pretend I am in my fantasies! lol.  ((hugs))  some people are so rude!  This is society at best.  I'm so sorry this happened today.  I give you kudo's for not asking her about her "bump."   

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  • PiperSPiperS member

    It shocks me how clueless people are when it comes to common curtesy. I mean if you were pg you would share the news when you were ready and if you are not obviously that question wouldn't make you feel very good! People amaze me!

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  • TapatioTapatio
    Some people just don't have filters and spew the first thing that comes out of their idiotic mouth. I'm sorry ((hugs)).
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  • CashewsMommyCashewsMommy member
    What a twatwaffle!!! Angry


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  • lavrillavril member
    Angry  What is wrong with people!?!

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  • emeraudecephiroemeraudecephiro member
    I don't think I would EVER ask a woman this unless I was absolutely positive the woman was pregnant and knew it for a fact.
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  • corndog8corndog8

    imageCashewsMommy:
    What a twatwaffle!!! Angry

    This!   I just love this word now... 

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  • Fallon621Fallon621
    That sucks!  So sorry ((((HUGS))))  That would have been one great come back though.
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  • vlong4vlong4 member

    imageCashewsMommy:
    What a twatwaffle!!! Angry

    I love this... great word!  Who says that?  twatwaffle.

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  • thewayiamthewayiam
    Unbelievable. Well, actually it is believable because people say the most stupid things. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
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  • morkmork member
    What's with all the rude people today? You totally should've asked about her bump, it would've served her right. ((HUGS))
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  • OatoaOatoa member
    Ew, the thought of her insensitivity makes me ill...you are def a better woman than I.  I would have totally called her out on her fat bump.  Hugs to you.

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  • lisaNDmike08lisaNDmike08
    Yiiiiiikes!  Good for you for being the better person, but I just don't understand what makes people say stuff like that.  I think I would have burst into tears on the spot and that would have taught her a lesson.  ((hugs))!!
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  • HadleySHadleyS member
    Oh my goodness, what an awful, rude, and very ignorant thing for someone to say.  I am glad that your coworker was on your side.  I am sorry that you had to deal with that today!
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