May 2011 Moms

insensitive DH

I don't know whether or not to call this insensitive or just stupid, but i guess I'm not allowed to mention any aches or pains??

me: "I've got pain in my groin and in my lady bits"

dh: "do you think you'll have to have a c-section?"

me: "what?"

dh: "well, if you can't handle this how are you going to birth a baby?"

me: "what?!!?!?"..... walks away

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Re: insensitive DH

  • Did you give him the finger? Wink

    Love your baby girl's first name...that's ours, too!

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  • imageMrsD1:

    Did you give him the finger? Wink

    Love your baby girl's first name...that's ours, too!

     

    Nope, I'm usually to caught off guard to have a decent reaction! lol!

    And yaay for the name! what's your MN choice?

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  • Next time you walk past him, give him a wedgie, a BIG one. Then when he tells you it hurts ask him if he's still gonna poop?

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  • Um, are we not allowed to feel pain at this point too?

    Sorry girl I think he just doesn't understand what you are going through and didn't think before he spoke. 

    What does he think of the nursery? You've done such a good job on everything!


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  • imagemeimsx:

    Um, are we not allowed to feel pain at this point too?

    Sorry girl I think he just doesn't understand what you are going through and didn't think before he spoke. 

    What does he think of the nursery? You've done such a good job on everything!

     

    haha! he's pissed cuz I did the nursery w/o him!  I was mad at him for something else stupid he said (I won't even go there cuz i love him and don't want to make him out to be a total idiot!) so I finished the painting by myself and put the crib together while he was taking  nap!

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    imagemeimsx:

    Um, are we not allowed to feel pain at this point too?

    Sorry girl I think he just doesn't understand what you are going through and didn't think before he spoke. 

    What does he think of the nursery? You've done such a good job on everything!

     

    haha! he's pissed cuz I did the nursery w/o him!  I was mad at him for something else stupid he said (I won't even go there cuz i love him and don't want to make him out to be a total idiot!) so I finished the painting by myself and put the crib together while he was taking  nap!

    Ah so it was a tense situation anyway. Well I can't imagine him sitting there with a delicate paintbrush putting polka dots on letters. 

     



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  • imagemeimsx:
    imageAngel0423:
    imagemeimsx:

    Um, are we not allowed to feel pain at this point too?

    Sorry girl I think he just doesn't understand what you are going through and didn't think before he spoke. 

    What does he think of the nursery? You've done such a good job on everything!

     

    haha! he's pissed cuz I did the nursery w/o him!  I was mad at him for something else stupid he said (I won't even go there cuz i love him and don't want to make him out to be a total idiot!) so I finished the painting by myself and put the crib together while he was taking  nap!

    Ah so it was a tense situation anyway. Well I can't imagine him sitting there with a delicate paintbrush putting polka dots on letters. 


     

     He says something stupid pretty much on a daily basis, so i've come to expect it! 

    and i did the polka dots with a q-tip :) Martha stewart over here!! lol!

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  • imageelisbu:

    Next time you walk past him, give him a wedgie, a BIG one. Then when he tells you it hurts ask him if he's still gonna poop?

    Yesyou made me giggle

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  • imageelisbu:

    Next time you walk past him, give him a wedgie, a BIG one. Then when he tells you it hurts ask him if he's still gonna poop?

     

    Yes 

  • imageAngel0423:

     He says something stupid pretty much on a daily basis, so i've come to expect it! 

    and i did the polka dots with a q-tip :) Martha stewart over here!! lol!

    Oh my gosh! That's such a great idea! I didn't even think of that and some of my dots are a little wonky.



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  • imagetheaustins05:
    imageelisbu:

    Next time you walk past him, give him a wedgie, a BIG one. Then when he tells you it hurts ask him if he's still gonna poop?

    Yesyou made me giggle

    I don't think I could even do that with a straight face!

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  • imageelisbu:

    Next time you walk past him, give him a wedgie, a BIG one. Then when he tells you it hurts ask him if he's still gonna poop?

     

    OMG! This made me laugh so hard Big Smile

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  • I don't think it's insensitive, I think he's just a man (I can actually see this conversation happening at my house).  I am glad to hear that my DH isn't the only one acting this way.  I thought I was overracting by some of the things he's recently said but I'm filing them away as he's a man and just doesn't understand. 
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