As I fall into both categories myself, I feel compelled to share this article - my favorite lines:
We must be willing to get rid of the life we?ve planned, so as to have the life that?s waiting for us. [...]
Sometimes things just work out the way they are supposed to when I have the courage to trust where my life is leading me.
Not a TON of help, but something I needed to read today.
Link: https://blogs.fertilitycommunity.com/weblogs/infertility-and-control-freaks
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