This weekend H's extended family came to see Jack. His aunt also had a preemie and talks about it all the time to me. She also acts like her 34 weeker being in the NICU for 2 weeks is the same as my 25 weeker which really annoys me, but whatever.
She was talking about a scar that her son has on his arm from something that happened in the NICU and how kids made fun of him for it when he was in grade school. Jack has a huge gnarly scar all the way across his stomach from his bowel perforation surgery. It had never occured to me that someday kids would make fun of him for it. I was so caught off gaurd and I know she felt awful. She brings up this shiit everytime I see her. Its not like I went on a 4 month vacation and want to reminisce about it everytime we get together.