I'm back and some questions
pumpkinhead4
member
Hi ladies-
I was here for a short time around the holidays but had my 2nd miscarriage in a row last week. First was at 11 weeks, this time at 10 weeks. Both were missed miscarriages. I do have one child which is what leads to my confusion. How could I be ok with my first pregnancy and not with these last two? My doctor wants to run tests but I have no idea what the outcome will be or could be.
Anyone have reasons/answers as to why they lost their pregnancies? Anyone have a child and go on to find out there is something going wrong now? I am scared and worried that I may never truly TTC again but I don't know where I belong right now. I posted on the miscarriage board, but I feel like you guys are versed maybe more (sad but true). Help? And sorry for all of your losses...it's heart breaking.
Re: I'm back and some questions
Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"
DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
He's a BOY!!!! Kieran Thomas
Hi, I'm in the same boat as you, I have a beautiful DD but had a miscarrage and then a Chemical Pregnancy.
My MIL had several m/cs but she also had 3 boys. My mom never had a m/c and had 3 kids. I think the not knowing is what makes it harder. I feel if I knew I could at least help to prevent it.
I am so sorry for your losses. I had a missed M/C at 13 weeks. Had the baby tested and he had Trisomy 18. That was a decision (testing) made before the D&C though.
I hope we are able to help you out, and that you'll feel supported. There are lovely ladies here on this board. Good luck, and hugs to you.
BFP#1 - 8/27/10 - D&C 10/27/10 @ 13 weeks to Trisomy 18
Missing our Angel Baby Gabriel
BFP#2 - 3/18/11 - CP 3/19/11 BFP#3 - 4/27/11 - Due 1/9/12
I'm very sorry for your losses.
It is completely normal to be scared and to think what if. It's part of grieving and TTC. My first pregnancy was a missed m/c at 8 1/2 weeks, then I was lucky enough to have a healthy DS...third pregnancy, m/c at 11 1/2 weeks. We've been trying for #2 since May of last year. The doctor said there is no rhyme or reason..it just happens. Sometimes they find a reason, sometimes not. I'm one of those "nots" so far. It doesn't mean I'm giving up hope yet; just means it is taking a little while longer for us to complete our family.
BFP#1 12/27/2009 MC at 7wks 01/03/2010
TTC since June 2010
BFP#2 2/21/2011 MC at 5wks
RE appt March 8th, 2011 ; early PCOS
hysterscopy 4/5/2011 - ute & tubes look good!
hematologist 4/13/2011- Factor II mutation heterozygous/thrombophillia
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I'm very sorry for your losses. I don't have any concrete answers to why I lost my LOs, but it was likely a partial placental abruption which led to pre-term labor. My second loss was a CP.
I hope the testing gives you some answers. GL!
BFP#1 - 9/2/10, EDD 5/14/11, Twins Hannah and Liam lost 11/7/10 @ 13w1d.
BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12
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~*~Labor Buddies with Sweet Turnip - Welcome Baby Girl 2/23/12 & Aluenna - Welcome Ivy 1/6/12~*~