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Cycle Day 64 - chart stalk please?

I have no idea what's going on with my body.  I had a D&C on 12/29 and haven't had AF yet.  I started charting late in the cycle b/c I was too devastated and heartbroken to try to chart earlier.

Anyone have a clue what's going on?  I thought the drop on the 22nd might be the start to AF, but the temps starting going back up.  WTH?!?   I've had cramps off and on.

I'm confused and impatient.  Help!

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Trying to start our family since 2010
BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
My Ovulation Chart
3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi

Re: Cycle Day 64 - chart stalk please?

  • Have you called your dr yet? If it's been more than 60 days, call your dr and see what he/she says.

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

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  • Yes, she was on vacation last week, so I'm waiting for her to return my call...

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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  • Hey lavril

    Take a look at my charts.  They are the same as you as far as temps (they keep staying elevated) but I have had more on and off bleeding.  Have you had your beta levels checked?  Maybe if you still have hcg in you that is why AF hasn't come.  That is what my dr. said and she told me once my levels are back to 0 I can either start AF right away or another 4 weeks from when levels are at 0.  SHe told me it isn't unusual or concerning either if some woman don't get AF for 3 months after a m/c.  I know how frustrating it is.  I feel like I am never going to have a normal cycle.

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    DD#1 9-4-04 *** DD#2 10-15-07
    BFP#3 10-25-10 *EDD 7/1/11 * missed m/c @ 13w3d
    BFP#4 7-30-11 *EDD 4/8/12 ~ DD#3 born 4/4/12
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  • I'm sorry your so frustrated. I'm in the same boat as you. I'm still waiting for AF and my temps are all over the place. Do you know if your HcG levels are at 0? If you're not sure, maybe take a HPT to check. I hope your doctor calls you back soon so you can get some answers. I know that waiting sucks!
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    BFP #1 5/20/10 Natural MC at 5w4d 5/28/10
    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
    "Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience."  Let it Be (blog)My BFP Charts
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  • Ugh - I'm so sorry you two are in the same boat.  The waiting sucks!!

    I took a pregnancy test about 3-4 weeks ago (can't remember exactly) and it was negative.  I don't know if that means it's down to 0 or not.  It was an internet cheapie, so I don't know how low they had to be before I got a -.   I have a feeling it wasn't a super sensitive test, but I already had it. 

    Do you think you will try provera to jump start yours or keep waiting?  How long are you willing to wait?

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
  • I have the wondfo hpts from amazon and they are super sensitive. my levels last thursday were 15 and I bled quite a bit more on saturday (leading me to believe it dropped more) and I took a hpt this morning and it was very very very faint positive. My dr. is going to follow my levels back to 0. If I haven't gotten af a month after I am 0 I will talk to her about provera. Hopefully your dr. will test your levels and get you started on provera soon if need be. Keep us updated.
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    DD#1 9-4-04 *** DD#2 10-15-07
    BFP#3 10-25-10 *EDD 7/1/11 * missed m/c @ 13w3d
    BFP#4 7-30-11 *EDD 4/8/12 ~ DD#3 born 4/4/12
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  • My levels are still up there (458 as of last monday) so I have a feeling I'm going to be waiting for a while still. I'm hoping to be at 0 and/or get AF by April (so far away, but realistic I feel).
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    BFP #1 5/20/10 Natural MC at 5w4d 5/28/10
    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
    "Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience."  Let it Be (blog)My BFP Charts
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    This time I'm not leaving without you.
  • I'm sorry your body is not cooperating.  I hope the doctor calls you back soon and you are able to get some answers. 
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    BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
    BFP #3 - 5/9/11, DS born 1/13/12

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  • My first AF post D&C took 100 days.. I had weekly blood tests to track my hcg down to below 5 (mine got to 2) and 4 weeks after I got my 2 AF showed up.  Defintiely find out about getting your hcg levels checked.  My first test was done by my general doctor so if your OB is not available you may want to contact your general doc to see if they can test it for you.
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  • Thanks so much ladies!  I will defn talk to my doc about getting my hcg levels done.  It's good to know this isn't totally abnormal.  I wish my doc would call me back already!

    PGAL/PAL welcome
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    Trying to start our family since 2010
    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
    My Ovulation Chart
    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
    "Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." ~Gandhi
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