No more sexy time for me I guess..

mayonayo · February 2011

Last night I got turned down for some sexy time. When I asked why DH said it's weird now. So I'm thinking he was having an issue with "poking him" but no, it's because he's more in the way now. I'm already having self esteem issues with my weight especially since I had to move from my pregnant clothes into my really pregnant clothes.. I guess I really am turning into a whale Crying

I think I may need a good pampering day..

ManiacMcGee · February 2011

I'm in the same boat. MH can't wrap his head around having sex with a fully formed baby inside of me.

yesthisiskim · February 2011

Sexy time? What's that? Lol.
Poor DH must have miserable blueballs because doing the deed just hurts too much and I feel less confident while I manuver my new body in bed and try to be sexy so we haven't done it at least a month. He keeps saying "6 weeks after Aubrey arrives... it's ON!" lol.

Mrs.Salt&Pepper · February 2011

Sorry you feel this way. Don't be so down on yourself, we only have a little bit of time left before we all get our bodies back and we can feel better about ourselves.

If it makes you feel better, we haven't had sex since SEPTEMBER! Oh man that's embarrassing.... but oh well. MH keeps saying the same things, "Man i cant wait till Ellie is here, then we can have sex all the time! " ..... haha.... between breastfeeding and changing diapers I guess!

GHBEA · February 2011

We just came up with other was of having sexy time. Mostly me on top because then I have the control stopping if it hurts and belling isn't in the way. There are other positions that have worked as well.

We don't have it all the time I am usually too tired or emotional to care.

mayonayo · February 2011

Mrs.Salt&Pepper:

Sorry you feel this way. Don't be so down on yourself, we only have a little bit of time left before we all get our bodies back and we can feel better about ourselves.

If it makes you feel better, we haven't had sex since SEPTEMBER! Oh man that's embarrassing.... but oh well. MH keeps saying the same things, "Man i cant wait till Ellie is here, then we can have sex all the time! " ..... haha.... between breastfeeding and changing diapers I guess!

This is what I'm saying. I think we should take advantage of the time we have now. I can't imagine going six weeks plus postpartum without any sex.

normajeane6126 · February 2011

No more for me either. But that's because the last time we tried, I started to have contractions

virginiagirl11 · February 2011

I'm sorry you're experiencing this. Honestly, I am truly surprised that we are still DTD. I thought for sure that DH would get a little weirded out by it as LO got bigger but he seems to have no problem. It's me who is having to slow this boat down now because it's starting to get uncomfortable.

Amber68W · February 2011

mayonayo:
I can't imagine going six weeks plus postpartum without any sex.

I thought the same thing the first time around, until I actually had DS. But it was really easy! Poor DH. My stitches hurt so bad and I was engorged and had PPD so I didn't want him anywhere near me for over two months after.

When we finally did try, it took a few times and a lot of lube to finally get down to business.

stephanie_shoe · February 2011

My husband can't keep his hands off me, but I'm NEVER in the mood. Poor guy has never been so rejected in his life. (It's weird that having sex now doesn't freak him out, but when we were TTC he got really weirded out by what we were doing. I'd have to initiate when I was ovulating and not tell him that it was THAT time to be having sex).

The last few times we have done it, it was semi-painful, and we didn't have any lube. He's thinking that once I hit 39 weeks that we'll be doing it everyday to see if it helps induce labor. I don't have the heart to tell him otherwise, lol.

ITGurl0626 · February 2011

My DH has no problems with sexy time at all. He could feel the baby jumping around while we are in the act & it doesn't deter him at all! LOL!! I have made it very clear to him that I will be needing him to help me dilate or soften my cervix in the last few weeks....he is more than willing to oblige!

TheMrs923 · February 2011

DH is afraid that having sex will induce labor. However, it took very short work to convince him that you can't induce labor unless my body is already thinking about it lol.

bobalina77 · February 2011

Oh jeez.. we haven't had sex in over a month and even then it's been completely sporatic through out the pregnancy. First it was because I was feeling so nauseous, and then it would give me massive heartburn, and now we both just feel so uncomfortable, it's hard to manuever and he's completely weirded out by it lol.

We've already decided that after peanut is born we're gonna have to make time during the day for sexy time while peanut is napping in her room lol!

kpips20 · February 2011

We're having the opposide problem. DH is still all about the sexy time and I'm the one who's just not into it. I swear this baby knows exactly what's going on b/c the second we start anything she starts kicking up a storm and distracting me. Last time I made it to 37 weeks before I finally cut DH off, not sure we'll make it that far this time!

janjag · February 2011

I've been on restriction for over a month, and before that we'd manage to do it maybe every 1-2wks. I am hoping to get the OK this Thurs at my appt!

For me, pp sex was super painful (even with lube) due to hormone changes. I think the first time was at 3mos pp, and it got slightly better. It didn't really get better until I stopped BFing completely at 7mos.

If I get approved from doc and DH turns me down, I'll be really annoyed

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