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I was so convinced.

stephsteph77stephsteph77 member
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I had an extremely realistic dream last night that I woke up this morning and got a BFP. It was SO real. When I woke up and didn't see a huge temp drop I got excited and tested with a FRER. Nothing. BFN. I'm so disappointed! AF is due today, but I always have a big temp drop right before she gets here. My longest cycle ever is 28 days (usually less), and here I am in day 28. Now I just wish she would get here so I can stop being hopeful. I hate this. And I sincerely doubt this is one of those "it's not over until she gets here" type moments. I had a very clear O this month, so if I was KU it would for sure show on a FRER by now. Stupid body.
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  • mizdiz444mizdiz444
    (((Hugs))) that just sucks.
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  • TapatioTapatio
    It's amazing how a dream can mess with our sanity. I'm sorry about the BFN ((hugs)).
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  • rosenb2brosenb2b member
    I'm sorry!  {HUGS}
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  • HappyLaLa0914HappyLaLa0914 member
    I'm sorry - that sucks!  :(  {{hugs}}
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  • jertiejertie member
    Ah man - that totally sucks.  Having hope is one thing, but when Mother Nature just wants to mess with you that's just plain mean.  ((HUGS))

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  • mypeanut12mypeanut12
    I'm sorry! Big Hugs to you!
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  • cmumamacmumama member

    I'm so know how you feel!  I had a very vivid dream last week that showed me taking an HPT and getting a BFP.  So, I POAS on Saturday morning, but got a BFN.  I'm still waiting for AF to show up.  If she's not here tomorrow, I'll probably POAS again.  28 days is my usual cycle as well.

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  • smallfry5909smallfry5909 member
    (((hugs))) sorry about the BFN. I had my longest cycle ever this past month, when I'm normally exactly 28 days. Our bodies are so screwy when we're TTCAL!
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  • kellym243kellym243 member
    I feel your pain- had the same.exact.dream as you the day before AF this cycle. Our minds (and bodies) can be so mean to us :(
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  • Fallon621Fallon621
    Huge ((((HUGS)))) so sorry about the BFN!
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  • MommyandKateMommyandKate
    [[hugs]] I'm so sorry.
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  • opalloveropallover

    (((hugs))) honey, the reason people say that it's not over until she shows is because you may get a bfp in the next few days. (((hugs))) It's a good sign that your temp didn't drop!

    [ps - I"m in the same boat as you... so me telling you is also me tellng me... ]

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  • MandaS08MandaS08 member
    I'm sorry! I am in the exact same boat, except I got my huge temp drop this morning.  I was so so hopeful and then this morning, bam, huge drop and cramps so I am sure AF is right around the corner....it just SUCKS! HUGS

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  • HadleySHadleyS member
    {{{{hugs}}}} I am so sorry, Steph.  This is the part of the 2ww that is killer.  I hope that one way or the other, you get your answer soon (BFP so you can celebrate, or AF so you can move on to try again).
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  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis
    I'm so sorry.  ((Big HUGS))  It's not fair when our minds play tricks on us.
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  • luckylady55luckylady55
    Sorry honey, {{Big Hugs}} Maybe March will be our lucky month.
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  • StaceyM06StaceyM06

    imageTapatio:
    It's amazing how a dream can mess with our sanity. I'm sorry about the BFN ((hugs)).

     This.  (((Hugs))) 

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  • EricaK28EricaK28 member
    Huge Hugs.
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  • nikki04vbnikki04vb member

    Right there with you lady... I feel like I'm stuck in limbo. 

    AF is definitely coming so I wish she would just come and get it over with.


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