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Give me some hope please....my irrational thoughts are going crazy

jensnebjensneb
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So I tested at 9, 10, 11 DPO and got BFN's.  Well one really faint something, but I think it was a smudge, followed by 2 BFN's

I am wondering if each pregnancy is different b/c I got my last BFP's by 10dpo.  Is it possible to still get one later on, or is it usually the same DPO for one person?

Does this make any sense?  It's messing with me b/c now I'm having phantom sore boobs.

Maybe I'm just nuts tonight.

 

 

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Re: Give me some hope please....my irrational thoughts are going crazy

  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    I got my first BFP at 13 dpo and my second at 10dpo. So it definitely depends on implantation and not just the person. Either way Its not too late to still get that BFP. Good luck!!!!

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  • Jen98jibJen98jib member
    each pregnancy is different depending on how long implantation takes.  Even knowing when you O does actually tell for sure when you conceive and so on so lots of variables.
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  • emeraudecephiroemeraudecephiro member
    Try a couple days, and test again with FMU
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  • corndog8corndog8

    imageemeraudecephiro:
    Try a couple days, and test again with FMU

    I would say this..

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  • tootlebugtootlebug member

    it depends on when it implants.  it could make a difference too if you arent using really sensitive tests...

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  • Summer20Summer20
    With DD I got a BFP on 10dpo.  With my m/c I tested on 12dpo and it was negative and then waited until 16dpo and it was positive (I was convinced I wasn't pregnant, don't know how I waited three days!)  But then again, that pregnancy ended in m/c so maybe that was part of why it took so long to get a BFP??? I really have no idea, but FX for you!

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  • MommyandKateMommyandKate
    imagetheresat858:

    It can vary from pregnancy to pregnancy - when you get the BFP depends on implantation time.

    Test again in the AM and don't test without using FMU - dilute urine can easily give a false negative when it is this early.  Good luck and FX!

    I agree.

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  • Eris-AlexisEris-Alexis

    It varies depending on implantation, which normally happens 7-10 DPO, but can be as late as 14 DPO.  Then it takes a couple of days after implantation to release enough HCG for the test to pick up.

    I agree with PPs, test in a couple of days with FMU.  Don't count yourself out yet.

    GL!

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