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Bad Nightmare about DH this weekend and woke up crying...

frogyiefrogyie
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I had a dream Friday night that DH cheated on me at a friends party and I caught him red handed.  In the dream he had no remorse and said "what do you expect we don't do it anymore!".  I was so upset when I woke up but didn't tell DH until the morning.   He thought I was laughing when I told him but I was crying.   When he realized that he felt bad and said that he isn't going anywhere sex or not.   We snuggled the rest of the morning. 

 I feel really bad that we haven't had sex in a month.   I am just not in the mood druing the week as I have been working really long hours and on the weekends we have been busy.   I want to get back on the horse but now feel like I initiate it will seem like it is a pitty move.   WWYD?  

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Re: Bad Nightmare about DH this weekend and woke up crying...

  • Karen1998Karen1998 member

    (((Hugs)))

    Maybe you could have a date night and wear some sexy underwear.  Don't  mention it until you're in the middle of dinner in a public place and he can't do anything about it right then.  He'll probably take care of the initiation once you get home.

    BFP#1 4/17/10...EDD 1/6/11...M/C 5/28/10 BFP#2 11/19/10...EDD 8/4/11 Squeaker born 7/30.
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  • slgbreedenslgbreeden member
    I know exactly how you are feeling. This whole pregnancy has been one big dry spell for DH and I. Now it's getting to the point where DH isn't much interested either and that worries me. We just keep talking about it and he said he is fine and not to worry. I like what Karen said too, sounds sexy and romantic:)
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  • Ernie52408Ernie52408 member

    I don't have any advice, but you're not alone. I'm in the same position. We've had sex very few times since conceiving. At this point I don't even know if we'll be able to have sex anymore. I'm having such bad hip/ pelvis pain that I can hardly walk. Sex is the last thing on my mind.

    DH tells me it's okay, but I can sense he's just saying that to make me feel better.

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