I complain when people mess up so here's a shout out for something incredibly sweet

3citygrl · February 2011

Since coming out of the IF closet this year in almost all parts of my life, there's a growing team of family and close friends who follow my ivf cycles, route for me, read my blog, check in... I'm so impressed that almost everyone in my life has handled it all so thoughtfully lately. Tonight I'm going to my little sister's b-day party and getting drunk for the first time since I started this past cycle that just ended in a c/p. My cousin just called me now to say she heard about my cycle not working and wanted to tell me how sorry she was before tonight, so I can just enjoy tonight without having to talk about it if I don't want to. I was floored by how thoughtful that was. Especially coming from a single, younger person who's head isn't in the whole kid game yet.

ralphlauren · February 2011

Thats really nice. I have not told a whole lot of people my IF issues and sometimes wonder if I should...Not so that people feel bad for me but moreso that they understand if I am not all there. That's great that you got that great of a reaction.

bluebabka · February 2011

Wow, your cousin sounds truly toughtful. The last time I had drinks with my cousin (a nurse) she exclaimed loudly... "I almost called you the other night from the maternity ward to see if you wanted to adopt a baby a lady was giving up" and I mean loudly...The whole party stopped. LOL... your cousin = thoughtful: my cousin = not so much

I hope you have fun tonight : )

ralphlauren · February 2011

bluebabka:

Wow, your cousin sounds truly toughtful. The last time I had drinks with my cousin (a nurse) she exclaimed loudly... "I almost called you the other night from the maternity ward to see if you wanted to adopt a baby a lady was giving up" and I mean loudly...The whole party stopped. LOL... your cousin = thoughtful: my cousin = not so much

I hope you have fun tonight : )

wow, that's unbelievable!!! How did you control yourself? My cousins wife asks me if I have good news yet when I see her. They she tells me how to check my BBT to see when I OV. Um, thanks for the tips. Some people are so clueless...but maybe I would be if I didn't go through this. I would just be a little smarter.